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Do you kiss your kids on the lips? I’m not judging anyone I’m just curios. I kiss my kids on the…

Do you kiss your kids on the lips? I’m not judging anyone I’m just curios. I kiss my kids on the cheeks and they always try to kiss my lips but I will turn my cheek for them to kiss. I’m not very good with affection. lip kissing to me feels very intimate and personal. Like in my space. I automatically start to get anxiety. Even if they are all on me near my neck and in my face I start to feel anxiety. Does anyone else feel like this?

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massgirl

Mandy

Too add further I feel like telling kids kissing on the lips is for adults or whatever is sexualizing a kiss when to kids kiss is simply a form of platonic affection. If my daughter decides she's uncomfortable with it one day then fine but I feel like out right rejecting a kiss from my child anywhere is wrong

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raisinglittlegamers

Uhhhh

My niece is 5 and she still demands I give her a kiss 😂

My nephew stopped when he was like 2 lol.

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

Thanks y’all. I think a lot of my issues stem from Childhood and also because my parents were never affectionate. I can’t tell you when the last time my mother told me she loved me but I sure can remember the last time she called me a bitch. I do tell them constantly I love them and I do kiss on the cheeks. I’ve tried to teach personal boundaries age appropriately but of course they are kids and don’t grasp it yet. I remember one time my son came behind me and wrapped his arms around my neck and I immediately got tense and had a panic attack. I felt so bad because I didn’t want him to feel like i didn’t love him or anything like that. My daughter is the kisser. They both love hugs and cuddles and will literally be skin to skin with me if I let them.

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massgirl

Mandy

My daughter went through a phase where she would kiss my lady bits because she was at the right height 🙈😫...it was so awkward and I had to shut it down. I can't do kisses on my neck from childhood trauma and I can definitely relate to not getting any affection and being called a bitch... don't worry too much about it. You're doing a great job regardless of where those kids are getting kisses as long as they know you love them ❤️

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justgotaname

Justgotaname

Exactly. I tell them those kisses are for Daddy. I feel like I hug and kiss them plenty. Just not on the lips.

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mom.to.teen.n.tot

Jennifer

i’ll kiss my 2 and 16 year old on the lips

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massgirl

Mandy

I do both. I get tense when people touch my neck, including kiddo. Sometimes she kisses me there and it gives me instant anxiety. My daughter and I have a thing where we kiss each other on each cheek and then the lips when we're saying goodbye. Other than that we kiss where she sees fit.

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billnyetherussianspy

billnyetherussian

I kiss my kids on the lips don’t feel bad it’s just personal preference

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raisinglittlegamers

Uhhhh

I kiss my kids on the lip.

Dad. Has them kiss on the cheek especially when they reach a certain age.

I don't believe in PDA in front of kids so even when I kiss my husband it's nothing more than a quick peck. So that's how they show affection 🤷🏼‍♀️

But I also get the whole anxiety thing... Sometimes I can't stand people around my facw

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mom.to.teen.n.tot

Jennifer

same

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scream.queen

scream.queen

When they were younger I would kiss them on the lips when they wanted. Now we kiss each other on the cheek or forehead.

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massgirl

Mandy

Too add further I feel like telling kids kissing on the lips is for adults or whatever is sexualizing a kiss when to kids kiss is simply a form of platonic affection. If my daughter decides she's uncomfortable with it one day then fine but I feel like out right rejecting a kiss from my child anywhere is wrong

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raisinglittlegamers

Uhhhh

My niece is 5 and she still demands I give her a kiss 😂

My nephew stopped when he was like 2 lol.

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thatregalmujer

Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest

Мама сына (1 год)

my child is small, so I may be excluded from this, lol. I don't kiss his lips, I kiss everywhere else, cheeks, forhead, nose, back, lol. It's weird though, he tries to kiss me on the lips. I guess because I know some people (family members) kiss babies on their lips, I didn't want to "normalize" this for him 🤷🏿‍♀️ idk

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ekko

The EK 💋

Yes, I kiss my son on his lips.

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

Thanks y’all. I think a lot of my issues stem from Childhood and also because my parents were never affectionate. I can’t tell you when the last time my mother told me she loved me but I sure can remember the last time she called me a bitch. I do tell them constantly I love them and I do kiss on the cheeks. I’ve tried to teach personal boundaries age appropriately but of course they are kids and don’t grasp it yet. I remember one time my son came behind me and wrapped his arms around my neck and I immediately got tense and had a panic attack. I felt so bad because I didn’t want him to feel like i didn’t love him or anything like that. My daughter is the kisser. They both love hugs and cuddles and will literally be skin to skin with me if I let them.

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massgirl

Mandy

My daughter went through a phase where she would kiss my lady bits because she was at the right height 🙈😫...it was so awkward and I had to shut it down. I can't do kisses on my neck from childhood trauma and I can definitely relate to not getting any affection and being called a bitch... don't worry too much about it. You're doing a great job regardless of where those kids are getting kisses as long as they know you love them ❤️

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loving_the_mommy_life

🖤Loving My Boy's🖤

Мама двоих (10 лет, 11 лет)

I have never kissed my boy’s on the lips 👄 and never have let anyone kiss them on the lips 👄 plus my boy’s don’t like to be kissed.

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itsamemario

MamaToboys

Yup i feel the same .

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artsynelly94

Nelly Ashworth

I do if that’s where they go for . My 3 year old rarely does it he always wants us to kiss him on the cheeks lol but my one year old always tries to go for my lips , I think it’s because he sees my husband n I kiss on the lips randomly and when he sees his dad he automatically does it too .

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2sweetie

Melinda Westad

I kiss both of my kids on the lips!! I love it 🥰 They’re so sweet and precious and I hope they never get “too old” to kiss their mommy. They came out of my body, they are part of me. I don’t see kissing as inappropriate at all.

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imacat

Meow.

No, he went through a phase where he used to try to kiss me on the lips and I used to cringe.

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imacat

Meow.

But I also have issues from my childhood so I guess it also stems from that.

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brenduhhh

B

I kiss both of my kids on the lips but then again they kiss me on the cheek too so it all depends

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denise1493

Jas

I don’t. And my daughter has learned not to as well. I think it’s because I remember my grandma kissing me all the time as a kid and I absolutely hated it.

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alishap1212

Food Is Love 💕💕

I had this argument with my dad because he did kiss my daughter on the lips . We don’t . Personally it bothers me and I feel a kiss like that should be left between a couple . My daughter learns now to kiss on the cheek to all her relatives

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dope.ass.mom

Nikki

I kiss my kids on the lips & cheeks but will stop when they get older.

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dankerson

Lilo

Мама двоих (младенец)

rarely do I kiss my kids on the lips, only when being silly/tickling do I do that

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