Interesting. Maybe he's tired of just getting photos. People like interaction. I would try Skype or maybe have her make him something for grandparents day or father's day. If you don't want to do it personally have your husband do it. If he's asking habitually he clearly wants a relationship...most men wouldn't go out of their way if they didn't care

@massgirl photos are all I can do. I'm am a healthcare worker my daughter is basically living with my mother at this point , I dont even get to see her but just a few times a week. Its absolutely ridiculous that he is demanding more from me when I'm not even getting full time with my daughter. In my opinion he is acting like a selfish child

@farahcrawley idk I see you're point but he's probably frustrated because he's either used to seeing your daughter more or this is the breaking point because he doesn't see your daughter enough pre pandemic. I'm going to guess from your defensiveness that it's been going on a while so at this point block him or just kill him with kindness and go out of your way to make him feel like a grandparent too...or have your husband keep up with the relationship

@farahcrawley and there we go. You finally admit what he's saying is true.
Be mad at yourself if anything. Can't get upset when people call you out in what's clearly true.

@beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice I dont care if he is upset .... I'm the mom i decide who can and cant watch her ... i have my reasons

@farahcrawley then deal with him being upset. You're the one causing the issues. Can't be upset over it when you're the whole cause of the issue.