So I have a question.... Do you know when you’ve definitely had enough children? We have 2 boys (we…
So I have a question....
Do you know when you’ve definitely had enough children?
We have 2 boys (we lost a little girl in between). I really don’t do pregnancy well. I end up very sick.
Hubby is adamant he only wants the 2 and feels complete. I have days we’re I think “this is enough, life’s good, family complete” but there’s always this little nag in the back of my mind thinking I’d love another. Does this ever go? Hubby jokes I will always feel that way no matter how many children we have (and he might be right) but I’ve got gynae problems that mean I need to make the decision and be final with it as there will be no turning back.
Help me ladies. How do you feel? Do you ever know?
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
I’m not done I just know I’m not xx
Casey·
I would love a third but complications with last pregnancy meant a very premature baby and 70% chance of catastrophic haemorrhage for me with any future pregnancies so me and hubby agreed no more
Genevieve ··
Sorry to hear that. Sometimes it’s not really our choice is it
Casey··
I have accepted it now I just think I have two beautiful healthy babies and that’s all that matters
Lisa Drakes·
My husband is adament no more now, I'm scared i will never feel content with only 3 and a loss. I know that sounds awful but I'm so scared of regretting it, i dont feel complete I Really don't, I want 4.
Ive had problems in every pregnancy, im petfiried of another loss but it don't stop me from feeling like I won't be truly happy.
For me I've spoke to many women and theyve all been so certain it's no more babys. I almost feel like if there is a doubt in your head, are you truely sure?
But I don't know 🤔x
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
For me it’s on my mind a lot, may be because Conor is going to be two this year so he’s turning into a toddler , I always think how lovely it would be to have another, sometimes if the kids are playing up I feel like woah no way but then I honestly don’t feel like I’m done yet because it’s constantly on my mind.
I then think if someone was to say that’s it no more I’d be proper upset because deep down I know I want another xx
If you want another one have a chat with your partner and let the magic happen xx
kerry ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I want another one cos I know I want my lg to have an brother or sister . But I'm terrified of being pregnant cos I suffer with bad hyperemesis with my lg . But I really want one more then I think I be done .
Genevieve ··
I had bad hyperemesis with my first and second pregnancy (we lost the second one). Then with my 3rd I went to the drs the day after testing positive and requested specific medication I knew was the best for me. I was still sick. A lot. And hospitalised once. But it was the best of the 3 pregnancies
kerry ··
Мама дочки (1 год)
yeah I think we got it in plan if I got hyperemesis again I no which meds will stop the sickness . I was sick so bad ended up with kidney and liver failure hospital was my second home tho . Xx
Beth ·
Мама дочки (4 года)
I’m not done but I know my partner would only be up for 1 child (of his own) 😂😂🤷♀️❤️
So nothing I can do about it unless I get with someone else (not a chance) 😂😂
I will be surprised if we even have one child never mind more after! ❤️🌈 hoping for that rainbow soon though xx
Gina·
I’m done with two, I knew it before I was even pregnant with my second that I only wanted two, (before I had kids I thought maybe I wanted three). I absolutely feel done and wouldn’t even consider having more (that might be partially due to them both being csection births) After my first I was broody after about 2months but this time I’m not I’m just enjoying it (most of the time🤪) and embracing that this is my last baby. My girls dad said that he always thought I’d want more and more and that I’d never feel “done” but I do. Xx
Katherine Jacques ·
I'm our relationship its me who wud like one more but my oh is 100% sure he dosent want anymore but its me who feels like I won't be satisfied with 3 and I feel like a 4th wud complete my family but when someone's minds made up and 100% happy worh David and don't want another partner so I suppose I have to accept that 3 is my life now and I have to be happy and lucky with wat I have and that their happy and healthy.....i jist think ill always have that nagging doubt feeling at the back of my mind x
Emma·
We decided we were done with 2 children with SEN and 2 miscarriages. But I still think about what it would be like to have another, still niggles at the back pf my mind but unfortunately I can't do anything about it now!
Amy·
I always said two and done! Now I have her here I keep thinking it would be nice to have one more! But I'm not sure my husband will agree! I don't think we could afford another anyway tbh so enjoying lots of newborn cuddles now x
Charmaine Louise Lay ·
I think for me personally I still don’t feel complete after losing my little girl I’m currently pregnant with my rainbow (boy) I feel if it was a girl I wouldn’t feel incomplete but I suppose these things take time xx
Emily-May·
I don't think I'll ever be done 🤣 I'm having this one and stopping though according to Keiran he doesn't wanna keep going through what we've been through
Chloe G·
U know when u don’t want anymore
.·
When u get to 7 and think fuck what did I do 🤣🤣 only joking
🤦🏻♀️·
I’m definitely done. I said I was done after 2 but then I’d see a baby and be like awwww I want one. I no longer do that now I see a baby and think thank Heaven it’s not mine haha x