I just cant get over the fact how my dads wife said those horrible things about me. And really…

I just cant get over the fact how my dads wife said those horrible things about me. And really thinks I abuse my kids (verbally). She didnt specifically say that but after my daughter's dad said I yell at them to much (which I don't just his many lies and manipulative stories he has told her) she mentioned how she was in an Abusive relationship with her kids dad and that she knows how it feels and then asked do I stay mad and how mad do I get. I'm just infuriated about all of this. Everytime she likes a piat on my Facebook I think about what I saw in the messages. I just wonder if my dad knows about it and if I should mention something to her or my dad. I don't talk to them really about anything so I don't know if I should. And she is a pastor for goodness sake. Well my dad is a pastor. Been since the 80s and now all of a sudden in her 60s she feels like she needed to be a pastor as well and went to school for it online. That's just something she does. My dad is Spanish, so she trys to speak Spanish. It's so wrong. She says it weird and think shes the best. And she always says "que" when you say something to her.its annoying as hell. And now she wants to be a pastor. Sorry for the rant just cant stand it or anything about her right now.