i thought your husband was supposed to be your other half and be there when times are hard & you’re…

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No he’s not 🙄

nope definitely not alone on that.

@coffeebean, I’m sorry it’s hard for us to stay strong when the one person we are supposed to trust and feel safe with make us feel like crap ! We are supposed to be teams ( husband and wife) sometimes it feels as though we’re are working against each other instead of together 🤦🏻‍♀️

yess exactly how it’s felt here lately! like he’s just completely against me and everything i do. i literally feel like an annoying little sister or something. like i just feel like he’s so distant and has his own life separate from our life if that makes sense. i don’t mean like he has a life and isn’t glued to my hip because obviously that’s not healthy, i just mean like... it feels like he’s moving forward and leaving me in the past type of deal. like he just makes me feel like he’s got all these friends he associates with and half of them don’t even know me when he used to introduce me to literally every single person in his life. he’s constantly talking about me to everyone like i’m this annoying nagging wife and he never used to do that.. even when i was being bitchy he would shut people down and shit on THEM before he would shit on me. he never let anyone even think a bad thought about me let alone laugh and agree, he was always the one to be like “my wife would never shes amazing.” or “sucks you gotta deal with that my wife is awesome i can’t lie” it was always shit like that to where it just makes you feel good. now he literally does NOTHING but talk shit like he enjoys being one of those husbands who gets together with a bunch of married miserable men and bitch about their awful wives together. even if no one else is talking about their wives, he will still do it and then when i finally get pissy about it he wants to be like “chill out dude i’m just joking” like really?? cause i don’t hear you telling them that so they obviously don’t know you’re joking especially when you say it completely serious and say nothing BUT that negative shit. i’m just over it. but god forbid i shit talk him 🙄

sounds like my husband 🤦🏻‍♀️ he has a lot of friends through his line of work . Anyone who’s met me knows how annoying he is though . He just makes himself look stupid by talking crap. It could just be his friends too . I think a lot of men are like that . To be honest , I don’t even care anymore. I agree when it comes to them they get all butt hurt 😭

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