Husband says the romance is gone.. The spark is gone...he basically staying cause he doesn't want me…
Husband says the romance is gone.. The spark is gone...he basically staying cause he doesn't want me to move back to NC with the kids... And I'm heartbroken idk where it went wrong and I feel like falling to pieces but I can't cause the girls... What am I to do... I know the pain will fade but omg what do I do.
Ss3mom·
So u two aren’t living together now? I’m really sorry love that’s really tough. You’re right the pain will fade in time but that doesn’t make it easier right now. Just take some time for u and the girls and really focus on what u want!! I’m so sorry if u wanna talk I’m here
Julienne 😜👑 ··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I moved to Philly with his family last March when our daughter was born so we could save and buy a house next year.. But now this happened
Ss3mom··
damn he had u move from nc to Philly now he’s pulling this crap? That’s really messed up. Where’s your family? I assume nc? Is there anyway u can stay with your family until you’re on your feet again?
Julienne 😜👑 ··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
yes my whole family down to my grandma live in NC and my mom will Welcome us back home No problem...ive gotta deal With work First put my notice in and everything... And I really truly don't wanna go...but I know it prob for the best
Little Mommy ·
Tell him to grow a pair of balls!! That happens in most marriages at some point or another! If he wants to fuckin leave he can leave but telling you that and not planning on getting the fuck out of the house is a coward move. He wants you to make the hard decisions for him. I suggest carrying on with your life as you were and showing him that his selfishness won’t bring you down.
Just Me··
Мама четверых детей
And he's gonna be disappointed when the same thing happens to every relationship. 🙄
Little Mommy ··
@onehotmess, exactly
Harley Quinn ·
You need to find the romance again. Romance comes and goes in all seasons of marriage. You have kids and jobs and things that get in the way. It’s nice to have the romance but that’s not what makes a marriage.
I’d suggest marriage counseling.
LT·
As said above. Romance ebbs and flows. You don’t just drop everything in a down time. That’s a coward move. Do what you need to do for yourself and your girls now.
PeanutJones325·
It sounds like there is someone else in the picture if his first discussion about your relationship went like that.