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[LINK IN BIO] I wasn’t going to watch the Trials of Gabriel Fernandez on @netflix - what for? Another death that…

[LINK IN BIO] I wasn’t going to watch the Trials of Gabriel Fernandez on @netflix - what for? Another death that could’ve been prevented, see how flawed the social work system is and watch how he slowly died? No thanks.

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But I ended up watching. I worked in the foster care system because working with kids who need help has always been something I wanted to work in. I had no experience, but eventually learned the ropes. I had children who didn’t know why they were in the system, still loved their parents no matter what they did, foster parents who were great and some who were awful, parents who tried and others who kept neglecting their children.

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Would I recommend watching this? Of course, no one wants to say this was a good watch. Tears might start flowing 5 minutes into it, but it’s important to watch so more people can know what to look out for. What to do? And to know the signs? Also feel the government needs to play a bigger role - work with families before removing children. Hire more workers,’pay them better, lessen case loads etc.

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Anyways, I posted a video on the car and my job during my time as a case planner. Did you watch? YouTube.com/thatsBetsyV

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Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be…

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?

need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I…

need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?