Ever since I found out I was pregnant (which is 3 weeks ago) my boyfriend has changed a lot with me…
Ever since I found out I was pregnant (which is 3 weeks ago) my boyfriend has changed a lot with me and his attitude towards me and I just can’t understand why it’s getting me down and feels like he’s not happy at all since I found out. I don’t know what to do anyone been in the position before or anyone got any advice that would be amazing!?
Alina·
Мама дочки-младенца
Did u plan your pregnancy?
Saffron··
Honest answer is no far from planned to be completely honest I just really don’t know what I can do to like cheer him up or something I literally don’t know what to do
Casey·
Have you spoken to him about it
Saffron··
Yes I’ve spoken to him a lot about it but he’s making it difficult to talk about and tbh I’m really scared he’s going to lose complete interest in me and stop loving me and the possibility of him just walking away
Lucy Reynolds·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Honestly for a guy they find it alot harder to get there heads around a pregnancy. Give him alittle space and then talk to him. Ask if there are any worries?
Saffron··
I hope you’re right as in it is just a guy thing and hopefully it’ll take him maybe a few more weeks to get his head completely around it but I’m also scared he’ll lose interest in me and maybe not care for the little one tbh 😞
Lucy Reynolds··
Мама двоих (младенец)
could take alot longer. My ex was the same. He even asked me to abort but i am fully against that. He couldnt get his head round until i actually started showing. It didnt work out for us due to other reasons. With my current partner he found it hard also but not so bad like my ex. The realization hit him more when we went for our first scan and he was excited afterward. Talking will help but try to listen to his worries and tell him you're in it together and give him that space. Men freak out but dont show it and may take it on you. As long as you show you're there for him. He will be okay.