Ok question! If you got pregnant by someone else do you tell your first CF (child’s father)? If you…
Ok question! If you got pregnant by someone else do you tell your first CF (child’s father)? If you do when do you tell them? We haven’t been together for years but of course he always hopes we will be together and still tries.
Mandy·
It's none of his business really. I wouldn't think to call up my ex husband and notify him at all. If you're on good terms I would tell him before the baby is here because he might notice a change in the child but that's it. Just remember the early you tell him the more you leave yourself open to drama with the situation you're describing
M_🖤·
There is no right or wrong time, especially if you both haven’t been together for years. I’d let him know whenever you’re ready.
Kristen ·
Мама троих детей
We never told my hubs ex wife about my pregnancies. She just would figure it out. It's not an ex business but that's just his I look at it.
Rubiaxo·
Nope. That’s none of their business
Nikki ·
Nope. What's going on in your life now is no longer his business. He'll figure it out once the new baby's here lol.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Hell no ..not his business but that’s just me
Elizabeth Hebert·
If you see each other for any reason, he’ll notice eventually, but he doesn’t need to know until you’re ready, especially if he’ll be taking your older one when you’re in the hospital. But other than that, it doesn’t affect his life.
Jelly·
If you guys are friendly and on good terms sure why not. But you definitely aren’t obligated too. It’s a personal decision in my opinion.
Ally·
I wouldn't say anything till you are further along. Much further. I ONLY say this because of medical purposes. Idk what your visitation arrangements are, but just in case there are emergencies or you go into labor and noone else is around, he may need to be prepared to take the child u share for some time
MassMomma16·
Really depends on your relationship now. Might be a good courtesy to let him know. I’d tell him whenever you tell everyone else. But you don’t have to tell him anything at all.
Dani B·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
I got pregnant pretty fast after leaving my sons father. I chose to tell him just because were trying to be open and honest to make coparenting work. It’s honestly been a good choice at least for me. I schedule appts for days I know he has off so he can keep our son. He’s definitely not happy about it. But he’s coming around. I also chose to tell him so we could plan things for when I give birth. Even though he’s not happy about it he’s still very helpful and understanding with things.