What’s the saying? To get over someone you should get under someone 🤔lol what do I know? I’m 38 and have only been with my husband. In all seriousness, do whatever makes you happy.

I feel like yes because you could hurt the new person

In my opinion, yes. I feel as though one shouldn't date simply to get over another as that's carrying unresolved baggage into the other relationship. Unless, you're up front honest about the situation with the new person and have a different intention... also, who's to say this new person will actually get you over the ex ? You may end up breaking a heart in the process when you find out that he just wasnt enough to get you over the ex because of your expectations. You'll likely find yourself comparing the two... It's too messy. I wouldn't do it, but that's just me. Nothing wrong with people that do, some may find love in the end, I just wouldn't do it. I think it would be better to do some soul searching and find out what you like again, who you are ... not who unfortunate circumstances and bad relationships made you, love yourself, give yourself time to heal and be happy again!

It's not something I can do but I'm "not normal"

Honestly. I did it....and it turned out to be the best thing of my life. He showed me how I deserve to be treated and blessed me with a baby girl.