I’m sorry you’re going through this love. Guys can be so close minded & shitty over the postpartum shit. They don’t understand what it’s like so to them we’re just crazy or a bitch. It’s hurtful & disrespectful. I grew & birthed a whole baby & now my body has to figure out what happened & how to return to normal all while caring for the new baby & any previous children you have already. It’s a LOT. & they don’t see it or get it. I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do. But right now, you’re stressed & things are very tense & he’s apparently tense as well so it’s just gonna be a battle between you two until either you decide to split or work it out. Before deciding to call it quits, maybe sit down & talk with him. Even if you don’t want, apologize for making him feel how he does. But explain to him, he has to work with you & understand where you’re coming from.. it might be a lot for him, but imagine how YOU feel. His hormones never changed up on him. Yours changed dramatically & now have to change AGAIN. It helps to talk though & even though you’re not technically “wrong”, sometimes it helps to say you’re sorry because it validates his feelings & lets him know you do care & don’t want him to feel like that. But try it before deciding to call it quits. New babies are a LOT on any relationship. Mine suffered a bit each time because we came at each other constantly cause we both were tense & stressed.