RANT!!
Okay so I had a baby 7 weeks ago and just started to sex last week. It’s painful cause having a baby can make you dry and tight vaginal birth or not. Every day my fiancé wants to have sex and even multiple times. I understand he’s young and sex drive is high but it’s completely different with me. He says he understands but I don’t think he really does. After sex my vagina gets sore cause I haven’t had anything up there in 6 weeks and now there’s something plowing through it. So when I tell him we’ve already had sex today or I don’t want to go for another round or whatever he catches an attitude. And it’s frustrating!!! Then he’ll be like it’ll only take 5 minutes or 2 minutes. And I tell him it’s not the time it’s the pain🙄. Then he’ll say I won’t ask for like 3 days then a couple hours later or the next day it’s like what he says goes out the window. Like one nut 🥜 isn’t enough to fucking satisfy you dude? Like you didn’t just have a baby or you’d understand what I’m going through dude. Like if you really understand don’t get mad. I don’t even have a sex drive tbh I really only have sex cause he asks or I bring it up cause I know he wants to ask but doesn’t cause he thinks I’ll turn it down. I wish guys had to go through some to understand what we women go through. Rant over.