Has anyone who has had a child in the last few years feel like they have struggled with their…

Has anyone who has had a child in the last few years feel like they have struggled with their friends? I thought after having my daughter so many of my friends would be considered “aunts” to her, meanwhile I now see that they don’t even bother seeing her, let alone catching up to see how she’s doing 😞 None of them even showed up to her birthday party in September. Feeling lonelier than ever 💔