Hey ladies, it's been awhile since I've posted but I need some advice. My ex husband says he's going to start paying child support (has paid only 200 in 10 years). So I gave him the information for our child support case and how to send it so that it goes through dcse like it's supposed to. He wrote back saying he doesn't want to pay through dcse and he'll just cash app me the money. I explained to him that it needs to go through dcse as he's very much in arrears. He stopped responding so I figured he was mad and let it go. His wife of 3 weeks called me cussing me out and telling me I'm trying to keep him from supporting his kids and he doesn't deserve all the shit I give him. So ladies am I wrong for wanting him to send it through dcse?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

I need some help/knowledge on child support and taxes?! Her father pays child support monthly.. My daughter lives with me, I haven't filed my taxes yet. I'm planning on doing it this weekend.
My ex just texted me and said - "Hey my dad is doing my taxes for me and he needs ur social security number n your full name, cause I need to claim back some of the taxes from the child support. And he said u can still claim Mia it won't affect it he already asked the tax people. So if u can send it over ...
He going to say that he not gonna pay me alot in child support because his other kids and he know ways around child support is that stuff even true peoples advice??
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...