Hey ladies, it's been awhile since I've posted but I need some advice. My ex husband says he's going to start paying child support (has paid only 200 in 10 years). So I gave him the information for our child support case and how to send it so that it goes through dcse like it's supposed to. He wrote back saying he doesn't want to pay through dcse and he'll just cash app me the money. I explained to him that it needs to go through dcse as he's very much in arrears. He stopped responding so I figured he was mad and let it go. His wife of 3 weeks called me cussing me out and telling me I'm trying to keep him from supporting his kids and he doesn't deserve all the shit I give him. So ladies am I wrong for wanting him to send it through dcse?