Cuz if u did break up. Let me tell u you will be stronger .so your right you won't ever be the same. That's why we go through these humps in life no matter what they are. For u to be the woman god knows u can be and grl let me tell u. You cant be a solider without going through the war. I been through hell n back. Watever it is. You will over come and be different but better and wiser and stronger. And your heart will be able to take more. Xoxoxoxo