Rant! My bf and I have always wanted to travel to Japan. In January we will hit our 10 year anniversary. At first we wanted to go to Japan with our kids but I suggested we go without the kids our first time. My bf was hesitant at first to go without the kids but after a while he agreed with me. But now he’s saying we HAVE to go with someone who knows Japanese. And it just so happens he knows someone who knows Japanese. So now he’s saying we HAVE to take his friend Erin with us to Japan on our 10 year anniversary. But I feel like she would be a total 3rd wheel. My bf is saying we can have our dates without her. But I’d feel bad leaving her on her own in a completely different country! So she’s bound to come along with us wherever we go while in Japan. But he’s adamant on taking her with us to Japan now! 😐 it never fails, he always finds ways or reasons to need someone else to come with us when it comes to planning couple things... almost like he can’t stand to be alone with me... 😑😡