Rant! My bf and I have always wanted to travel to Japan. In January we will hit our 10 year anniversary. At first we wanted to go to Japan with our kids but I suggested we go without the kids our first time. My bf was hesitant at first to go without the kids but after a while he agreed with me. But now he’s saying we HAVE to go with someone who knows Japanese. And it just so happens he knows someone who knows Japanese. So now he’s saying we HAVE to take his friend Erin with us to Japan on our 10 year anniversary. But I feel like she would be a total 3rd wheel. My bf is saying we can have our dates without her. But I’d feel bad leaving her on her own in a completely different country! So she’s bound to come along with us wherever we go while in Japan. But he’s adamant on taking her with us to Japan now! 😐 it never fails, he always finds ways or reasons to need someone else to come with us when it comes to planning couple things... almost like he can’t stand to be alone with me... 😑😡
You can definitely go to Japan and find your way around. They do have a good percentage of people that can speak English and it will be fun exploring the culture and finding your way around. But yeah if you can’t take the kids definitely don’t take her.
Yeah no that's not gona happen. Especially cos she's a she lol if I can't take my kids then I sure can't take her. N it's suppose to be about just you n him.
Yea that’s weird imo. I wouldn’t have another adult coming with us for an anniversary trip unless we brought the kids and were taking someone as a sitter ya know? Get a translator if he’s worried about language issues. I would be really upset if my dh suggested that. Seems odd to me