Okay ladies what do you all think I should do I have a 3 in a half year old hes my son then he has a auntie that's 4 so of course they are very close ....so I feed my son breakfast lunch and dinner everyday but when they are around eachother I ask my son are you ready for lunch and then his auntie says I want lunch to but it's like I have my own 2 kids to worry about and why should I have to feed your child when your her mom shes your responsibility this gets so annoying to me because everytime my child eats I go ahead n feed her because she continues to ask and then her mom ask me can I fix her somthing and I say yeah from trying to be rude
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If you live together then it's safe to say you both provide the food.
I dont get the big deal here? If the mom is a POS call her ass out. But I mean it's not like shes being dropped off at your house, under your care without the mom providing food.
Shes at her home, asking for food when she sees the other kids she lives with getting food.
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Just tell her go ask your mom ... then walk over and say take care of your kids this shits getting old don’t have kids if your not gonna take care of them she’s using you or lock up your food and tell her to go provide her own 💯
@kush_queen420 right she expect sombody else to feed her like if I'm about to fix my son some food she ask can you make her some to and I go ahead n just say yeah
@neenee23, screw that lol I’d be like no your grown make a effort
@kush_queen420 right like btc your 40 I'm 23
If you live together then it's safe to say you both provide the food.
I dont get the big deal here? If the mom is a POS call her ass out. But I mean it's not like shes being dropped off at your house, under your care without the mom providing food.
Shes at her home, asking for food when she sees the other kids she lives with getting food.
I’d feed her anyway since her mom obvi doesn’t care, and then chew her mom out about how she needs to get off her butt and take care of her baby.
She has 10 kids she really need to stop having kids then when I feed her she kind of doesnt want to say thankyou but I'll do it because shes a kid
@neenee23, geez that’s so rude. I’m sorry.
@sarasmilesatyou don't be sorry girl
Is her mom busy? Like does she work from home?
@littleonemorning right exactly thankyou
@littleonemorning and the funny part is that she has 10 kids and I guess shes tired well stop having kids if you no you want sombody else to care for them hate to sound harsh but this is how I feel
@neenee23, you’re not wrong. I’d for sure be having words with her.
She's 4....is it that hard to make an extra serving? I get that she isn't your kid...but you all live together. Of course a 4yo is going to want to eat when the other kids are eating.
It's the point she has a whole mom that's sits on her but when she can look after her own child
@neenee23 so say something. Be the voice for the kid that's not being cared for by her parent. I can see why you're annoyed..but at the end of the day this is a child you are annoyed of feeding.
Do u all live together? Where the girls mother during this time? Are u babysitting the child? I’d fed the kid she’s a child. If it’s that big of a deal talk to the mother of the girl and tell her she should be feeding her child these meals. Sorry I can’t offer much more help without knowing the back story ya know?
Yes we live together for the moment and the girls mother isnt busy she sitting around watching TV and no I'm not babysitting her she just like to be around my son 24/7 to play
@neenee23, then I’d have a serious talk with her mom about her responsibilities of feeding her own child. Not that u should have too but still. Maybe u two can come up with a schedule for mealtime so sue knows when mealtimes are for the kids. Like maybe she will do breakfast, lunch one day and u do dinner then the next day switch it up. Or u two can make the meals together ya know?
@ss3mom right that sounds good
She's 4....is it that hard to make an extra serving? I get that she isn't your kid...but you all live together. Of course a 4yo is going to want to eat when the other kids are eating.