Am I wrong if I want to leave my narcissistic fiancé and go back to my home town with my REAL family and take our children with me and file for full custody? It’s killing me because I love him more than I have ever loved anybody besides my children but I can’t keep being mistreated. My father wasn’t always there and is and always has been a drug addict and I just want my boys to have their father but I can’t take the misery anymore. All I want to be is happy and it’s impossible to be happy with a narcissist!
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I stayed until the one night he screwed up. He put his hands on me. I wish I would’ve left before then. I know it takes a lot to make that decision but it will be the best one you make. You deserve so much better. You’re kids deserve to see you happy. And who knows. Down the road maybe there will be someone who loves your kids as much as you do so you don’t have to do it alone
I left my sons father for being toxic. It was very hard. But so worth it. I’m so much happier being away from him. Yes it’s hard to be in split household. He’s great to our son. Wasn’t great to me. I have a closer relationship with my son because I left. Everyone will think it’s the selfish thing to do. But you’re just going to get depressed if you stay. Kids are no reason to stay somewhere if you’re not happy. Kids deserve happy parents. Pm me if you need or want to talk
@imisssleep123456789, see I have nothing here no friends nobody
@junesmommy_15, see we live in Illinois and we’re from Pennsylvania so it would be kind of hard if I moved back to Pennsylvania. He has a great relationship with them and I think that’s the main reason I have not yet left.
Are you able to get your own place and just coparent? You don’t have to be with him, but if he does nothing wrong to the kids, I don’t think it’s right to move them away.
@imisssleep123456789 I agree. Yes, you're kids would be happy if you move instead if them seing a unhappy situation but I wouldn't move to Pennsylvania. That's very far from him and they won't be happy not seeing him. I know it's hard but this decision is for your children.
If he has a great relationship with his kids I wouldn't take them from him but move away from that home. That way he could still have a relationship with them. I always try to see both sides. I'm all for fathers having relationships with their children. Unless it's unhealthy of course.
The only way your kids will resented you is if you stay and ain't happy. You want your kids to have a happy and healthy mom and home. In most cases if your not married then the mom has file custody till they go to court. If you have any prove how he treats you use it.
Don’t ever feel bad for protecting your kids I did the same thing I moved and never heard from them again they will see the truth don’t cover for his ass tell them the truth If they haven’t seen it they’ll understand that it’s for the best my kids never even asked about them it’s been over ten yrs
@briananicole, I just don’t want to be resented by my children later on in their lives...and I always try to search for the good in people I guess that’s my problem I get attached to people that are broken. Thank you so much it means a lot! ❤️
If he doesn’t treat you right you should definitely get out of the relationship. I know it isn’t always that simple but no, you definitely aren’t wrong for wanting to leave him. I’ve been there before, I feel for you. If you ever need a friend or just want to talk you can message me!
A happy and healthy mom is more important for your babies. Eventually it will be taken out on them too. Better to get them, and you, safe and happy while you can
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@db413, Thank you! I just for some reason can’t bring myself to leave for some reason. I’m past depressed. I love him but I need to do what’s best for me and my boys .