You need to concentrate on getting yourself out of that relationship! People who love each other don’t hit and shout at each other. Get yourself a home, a job and learn to be single then work on getting your baby back if it’s possible. The thought of a 5 month old having broken bones and going through all of that turns my stomach! Ffs, you’re supposed to protect him!

This makes my fucking stomach churn. What the actual fuck! Babies DO NOT just get a random broken arm. Are you fucking serious right now? Like @kx2girlmommy, said, that poor baby is better off in foster care and your other child should be as well! DONT ever pick a fucking man over your children and that’s exactly what it sounds like you did.

Prayers for the safety and security of your children. I hope someone is loving them the way they deserve. Prayers that you get what you deserve.

She said his arm “may” have been STEPPED ON 😩😭 this is so heart breaking

I ran up on this post and I actually don't know you or remember seeing any of your post. From what I'm reading it's pretty disturbing. I don't know how you don't know your child broke his arm. Obviously your baby deserves better. You and your man sound like worthless POS. As a mom your number 1 priority should be your kids and protecting them from harm. Definitely NOT causing harm. I don't get how a 5 mth old broke his arm and you don't know how? You or your man must have did it. Yall deserve to rot in jail and your kids deserve caring loving parents a safe environment.

I do everything in my power to protect my babies. They come before anyone and anything. There is no excuse to mistreat a child

This needs to be shown to authorities. Like someone needs to be putting him and her in prison.

@bmh192016l,

I thought I had you blocked since I was so tired of coming on a moms app to see nice mom related posts not issues with grown ass women going back to there married ex boyfriends you have been posting on here for so long about how you guys are abusive to each other and then have anouther baby with him and so many moms have tryed to offer support to you and u do not want the help your kids are clearly not a priority to you and that is beyond sad this post has me literally upset and sick to my stomach!! @reyjenetapia700 you and your babys father need to be locked up and you need to stop using your I'm disabled as a free pass to miss treat those babies that does not justify you and your actions and to read you are just upset that you want to get ur child back and back to being under the same household as your babys dad I pray to god that does not happen those babies deserve a home that cares about them

This is so horrific & makes me absolutely sick!!!!! You & the babies father deserve to sit in prison. I hope your older son is not in your care.

This is so heartbreaking.

Really 😦wtf how can you do that to a baby ??? I even told you one time if you need it help because of what was going on. I am close to Stockton and you are just a crazy lunatic bitch I'll just report it to the news so it shows up and people can see what actually happened. What You and your baby daddy did was the most pain full thing to you own blood your baby hope you can go prison 🤮😡

Sorry but you’re a poor excuse of a mom and you both are pieces of shit. Leave that baby in the system and I pray they place him in a real SAFE AND LOVING home. The story literally made me sick. That baby was hurt on purpose, How someone can just hurt a child is beyond me.

She deserves to be put in jail

Thank god the baby was removed before the bitch killed him...! If you are able to hurt your child this bad well u are able to kill him

It’s obvious you don’t give a shit about your children. You care more about dick then your children’s safety. How the fuck do you not know how your child broke his arm?? I would totally get it if he was older but 5 months? He can’t jump on the bed and “fall” off. And you said you were protecting him from his dad. Stop defending this worthless man if you care about your children. He’s not worth it. But as I am seeing off this thread you care more about this man. That poor baby shouldn’t have to deal with a broken arm at this age. I am glad cps took him. Btw California is very strict on cases like these at the end of it you both might be doing jail time. Imo would be the best thing maybe then you’ll realize ain’t no man worth losing your kids over father or not. Please don’t ever have anymore kids if you can’t even protect the 2 you have 🙄

This is a bunch of bull shit tht don’t add up I don’t even think I wanna understand it he’s prob better off I’m sorry that the baby had to endure this

You don't need children.

@kush_queen420, she still has the oldest boy. The baby got taken a few weeks ago

Definitely think she did it. She didn’t start blaming him until people questioned her story. 1+1 doesn’t equal 3

I hope you’re a troll

This is just so sad 😕 first off ain't no way that baby arm broke without some kind of force and neglect my daughter has had few falling off a stuff and never broke anything. also if the baby daddy did something you need to stop protecting that piece of shit. no man is more important than your kids and for you to stick up for him or know what happened and lie just makes you an equal piece of shit as him. not being rude stating facts. no kid should have to go through something like that. and if you're gettin on here to get sympathy you shouldn't only ones who should have one ounce of feelin bad for are them kids for having to go through that

firstly your story is shady AF second your ass knows very well how it happened I get the feeling by how abusive you and your hubby are towards each other one of you more than likely did it. 3rd if you were any kind of mother and thought it was his dad you'd never want a pos in his in life again. I hope you don't get this baby back and I hope you lose custody of the other child and he goes some where safe away from the toxic hell he's being raised in

That poor poor baby 😭😭 I hope he gets a loving home with people who really care for him. Your other child needs to be taken also before something happens to him.

This story is not adding up at all. Your confusing yourself and confusing us! This is fucking terrible! Your with a married man who is a abusive, everybody been telling you to co parent and leave his ass before something bad happens and look wtf happen? Your son is now in foster care because his upper part of his arm is broken which is the upper part that is the hardest part to break, so something must had happen to him someone had to break or some shit, if you ask me he is better in foster care and so isn’t your oldest 🤷🏻‍♀️ I hope the judge don’t show no mercy to you for what you guys did and oh let me get this straight y’all have court Wednesday and what you still gonna be with this POS man! If you ask me leave his ass get help and find a damn job!! Never put the whole I’m a stay at home mom and didn’t know what happen to blame , even the judge ain’t gonna believe your ass When you tell him that !

So you or your boyfriend broke a 5 month olds arm. I hope you both go to prison. Fucking disgusting.

Makes my stomach turn hearing this!!
What I’ve gathered your just a desperate bitch putting some married twat before your children!!!!!
Tell him to fuck off outta your life
You need to leave your 5 month old with foster as they’ll look after him and love him how he should!! And your other son too!
By the sounds of it you can’t give them a happy life as harsh as I may sound they are better off without you!
Yes I don’t know you but I just read all you’ve said and I’ve seen enough!!
That poor baby boy!!
I would punch up any man/woman that harmed a single hair on my baby boys!!!
I honestly don’t get you!! How can you sit back and just let this be

Seriously Reyjene? Like what the actual fuck. I'm gonna tell you what I've been telling you. Get your shit together and leave that sorry excuse POS. You think his wife was the damn issue? Naw she finally fought back. You're just too dick happy to even fucking care about your kids.

Are you fuckin stupid???? Im a fuckin nurse and belive me when that bone broked or any other bones would of broken that baby would of screamed in soo much fuckin pain and for days ...! The arm would of been swollen and extremely red or even turning blue like a bruise! So yeah i fuckin think you had something to do with this if not your are extremely fuckin stupid but believe me im sure u had something to do!!! That baby deserves to be adopted by a loving family the best thing u can do for this child is stay the fuck away

Everyone is being way too nice here... I just have one thing to say.

Burn in Hell bitch. That baby’s is too precious and innocent to have a nasty demonic mother who “accidentally” broke his arm. Seriously I hope karma gets you 10x worse..

Your biggest concern shouldn’t be your child’s father or how he feels. Your biggest concern needs to be getting your life together and then focusing on your child. Clearly you have some other issues going on and I don’t think at this time having a baby is going to help. The worst part is is you allow this to happen and now your babies in foster care and you don’t know what’s going to happen there. I think everyone’s issue was that you’re not honest if you broke a babies arm or if you’re man did , own it and be like yeah we did we made a mistake and now we’re trying to better ourselves but honestly he sounds like a piece of work.
For now you should just focus on your mental health and getting yourself better. No child at that age deserves to have a broken bone

Having children is a privilege not a right, just because you can doesn’t mean you should. I have nothing else to add to what I’ve already said or what has been said by everyone else other than please stop and think about what is best for your children. If it isn’t you then give them the life they deserve with someone else who can love and care for them. Children shouldn’t grow up knowing fear and pain, keeping them out of that situation is the best thing you can do for them.

@wildflowermama,

After reading your old posts I’m sickened to my stomach thinking about all the shit you’ve put those babies through. I can only hope they find love and security at some point.

Sounds like you have issues in general. May someone find help for that poor baby.

This is mind blowing. Well, like someone else said you should get evaluated. You need to go live with family and get out of that relationship. Do not focus on getting your kid back right now. It's not safe. Anyone that can break a child's arm will kill a child. I'm afraid that is next if you get your child back. The baby is more safe being in the system right now. Maybe you can get themselves together? You sound as if you know what happened so I would tell the judge just that. Stop being afraid of going to jail and get justice for your child whether that be you going to jail as well. You can redeem yourself but it's probably going to take jail time and a lot of parenting classes and leaving that relationship before you can. Better to start now than never. I hope you pray and ask God to forgive you because this is sad.

My son has fallen off the couch many times and has never broken a bone.
No way benji broke his arm falling off a bed or couch ! Tell the truth and protect that baby if you really want him back

This is so sad. And to be honest foster care isn’t always good either, shit still happens. I wonder what really happened, this really breaks my heart.

Smfh, for a 5months old bone to break takes alot. Their bones r flexiable so thenly can move n bend to come out of a man. Neither of u need tht baby. Because obviously if u didnt do it your neglectful for not watchinf you baby or your hiding who did it. And sounds like your not totqlly mentqlly there anyways!! Poor baby.

@mamagunn.no.1

@doctorunicorngreys,

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts

All of this makes me so sad and just wanna hug my kids a little tighter this morning.

@issanoforme @notqueenjusttaytay @doctorunicorngreys

There’s never a excuse to sit there and endure Abuse u can make any excuses u want there’s shelters and u still haven’t taken any steps to get away from this abusive pos why didn’t you get a restraining order the first time this shit started ? Kids don’t need a dad that bad there better off without trash in there life u never tried to protect them from the start it sounds like smh you gonna have to jump threw a ton of hoops and so will he and if u don’t those kids are gone You won’t have any say they will also tell you to leave him

I'm sorry but if your with him all day you'd know how his arm got broken. A 5 month old should not have a freaking broken arm!! Sounds like you know how it happened and trying to protect the dad. Which is absolutely sickening. If you dropped him and broke his arm I'm sure he would of been crying a lot. How long ago did you drop him?

Let the man go is the first step. Second, really think about it and decide, is you being a parent the best thing for your children?

I am at a loss here, first it was picking him up after tummy time which what did you pick him up by his arm?
Then it’s he fell off the bed while you were sleeping.. my child has done that and not broken and arm.
Then you think your boyfriend did it??? Which one is it? And how don’t you know. Where was he at 5 months old that you weren’t watching him? Also were is your other son?? Is he still in your custody?

You shouldn’t have custody of your older son either and go get your tubes tied. Honestly, you don’t deserve to have kids.

@bitch_you_trippin

So this story isn’t adding up at all. First it was when u picked him up from yummy time. Then I read u feel asleep with him in your arms then it was he fell off the couch. Now u said u think his dad did it? Which is it? I’m not surprised he was taken from u esp with these different stories. Also it’s his humerus that’s broken? That’s a hard bone to break and I would assume be extremely painful so I’d think he be screaming when it actually broke. Listen I’m sorry he was taken but this doesn’t sound right to me. This “man” is no good ffs. First he’s married yes? And u two are very toxic together. I don’t know u or your story but what I read here I have a good idea. What about your 3 year old? Where’s he? Is he in the home while all this bullshit is going on?

If you're questioning if the dad broke his arm, why would you want him around him so bad? You dont have that little boys best interest in mind.
You need to get out of that relationship fast!
Where's your 3 year old when all this fighting is going on? He's old enough to understand what's going on

You need to concentrate on getting yourself out of that relationship! People who love each other don’t hit and shout at each other. Get yourself a home, a job and learn to be single then work on getting your baby back if it’s possible. The thought of a 5 month old having broken bones and going through all of that turns my stomach! Ffs, you’re supposed to protect him!

Are you serious?! You definitely should feel like shit right now! The fact that you don't know how he got a broken arm is just effed up n you obviously do know what happened, don't sit there n lie to us. We're not stupid. This is what happens when you don't put your kids first. Smh poor baby!

Cuz ok Wednesday I just go up to the judge and face the truth and live the best life I can

I dont blame you ladies for anything I'm just asking for you guys to read the comments and tell what do you think I should do to get baby boy back

This makes my fucking stomach churn. What the actual fuck! Babies DO NOT just get a random broken arm. Are you fucking serious right now? Like @kx2girlmommy, said, that poor baby is better off in foster care and your other child should be as well! DONT ever pick a fucking man over your children and that’s exactly what it sounds like you did.

Wow this is a crazy story 😳🤯
Am I understanding this correctly? The 5-month old child has a broken arm because he fell when mom was asleep or it got broken when mom picked him up by the arm for tummy time?
Also, mom and dad are abusive with each other. In front of the kids? & the hospital knows about all of it so the baby was put with a foster family?

We cook together slept in the same room
I would read to Benjamin and talk to him sing to him

We did but my mom kicked me out of the house that's when him and I started living together

The father of our son and I love benji very much I love my son but were both learning the hard way to not call each other names and just be separated from each other so we can be better parents

I hit a lot cuz he attend to force push me on the coach like he can't let go j thought if I punch him a few times that he would stop putting his hands on me

I told them that the father and I fight a lot argue mostly he mostly pushes me

And it's my fault I told child services something I should have never said I was so angry

Yah I try as long as I could but it happened so fast

What happened