Everytime when I start working on me my husband starts acting funny cause he knows what I'm capable…

Everytime when I start working on me my husband starts acting funny cause he knows what I'm capable of.its either you with me or against me I'm tired of being so true to myself to the point I let people effect me with they stupidity and I start feeling depressed. I'm doing for me 2020 is my year and I'm not letting noone stop me or take that from me I've been in my shell for too long.