So my husband basically said he would want a divorce 🤷🏻♀️. I was just thinking we needed a little separation till he came to his senses that me and the boys come first. But I guess it’s whatever. He said people don’t do separations?
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Why not get your own place? Sounds like that could solve a lot of problems.
@massmomma16, we were on our own? Than his dad lost his job so we had to move in with them
@ryan_isaac_mom14, that’s sad to me. I don’t see it as your husband or your family’s responsibility to help them when the Dad lost his job. Which ultimately has come to this. I think y’all should definitely have a serious talk. And plan to get your own home together again...if it goes well.
@massmomma16, I’ve been telling him. But he doesn’t listen
So who cares if he won’t divorce, say bye and walk away if that’s what Y’all need and it’s what’s best! My husband has told me if we ever spilt he will never divorce me and I said whatever I don’t plan on getting remarried or anything ever if that happens my grandparents spilt years and years ago and there still “married” so she could stay in the states
@madmummy, it’s ok no problem 😊. And yeah I know
@ryan_isaac_mom14, I’m here if you wanna talk or just vent. I’ve been there minus kids at the time but it still isn’t easy walking away
That's ironic because in some states it is required to go through a separation period before you are divorced. Have you guys tried counseling?
I know It’s weird lol. And no we are actually on really great terms. My issue are his mother and father
Also people DO seperate before deciding to divorce, literally ALL the time. That's just not what HE wants to do!
It literally is Bullshit. I’m trying to be as civil as possible. And haha I know they do. My parents did it. Like I don’t understand MEN sometimes 🤷🏻♀️
Ok, BYE then.... that's what I'd say! This is SUCH bullshit! WHY is it just his way or NO way?? I'm so sorry Mama! I could not live with someone like that.
Wow. That’s pretty shitty. If he’s ready to give up that easy I would start planning your future without him in it. Your just missing out on your own happiness.
I hope things work out for the best!