After everything I did today he walks in and starts yelling about why I took out the gate in the…

After everything I did today he walks in and starts yelling about why I took out the gate in the room instead of seening all the hard work I did why do I even do it ..... for my kids ....not him why do I look for his reaction anyways why should he be so important ... maybe I'm obligated to do all the these stuff there for dont need validation