@athenia823, honestly it has its days I’m not gonna lie. But it is worth it when they come up and hug you and tell you they love you
@athenia823 and yes sometimes I get depressed and sad and lonely because I have no friends or family near me. And I am always home and it sucks especially in the summer and sometime I get bother that I cant buy things for my kids and house stuff or help to pay Bill's
@chanty09 right it's like dont get a job in the caring for young innocent kids
@athenia823 seriously like tbh I don't have patience for other kids then my own and i am being honest i don't want to ever babysit for no one kids unless it's my sisters or brother kids or my grandchildren
@athenia823, sense becoming pregnant for the 4 time it’s hard cause I be angry and moody at the fact my guy won’t let me work but it’s fun cause I get to see my
Baby’s everyday so it comes with challenges I’m just adjusting still like now I’m shopping for my baby online already and I don’t know why
@athenia823, I’m serious girl I put my boyfriend tf out my room he been down stairs two weeks everything hurt my feeling and now I have the need to shop
I am. My husband doesn’t want to work since I’m pregnant. But I do want to work though.
@athenia823 it was challenging at first because I was so used to working but 8 years and 3 kids later. I enjoy it because I spend a lot of time with my kids. It even allowed me to homeschool my oldest 2 for a few years :)
@aquariusmom yes I was thinking about homeschooling mine but I dont think I have enough patience and yes spending time with my kids are the best times that I will miss when there older
@athenia823, I’m also a full time online college student! I learned making a schedule and list keeps me busy till I have to start making dinner then I get to relax! It’s really fun I think, I love the opportunity to watch my tots grow! Sometimes you will feel like you’re cooped up, leaving for a afternoon drive or walk with the kiddos is always good! Or even a simple bath to yourself will help you keep your sanity, since you will be at home caring for your children all day now don’t forget to care for yourself as well🖤
Currently me, I love it and hate it both.
I love bonding with my children and watching them hit all of their milestones but when I worked I actually had adult conversations and got out of the house, I'm trying to go back to work as of now, Hoping I can soon.
@athenia823 I'm probably gonna work a different schedule than my husband or try to have my mom babysit, I don't do daycares.
@issanoforme Sam's here I hate daycares I will try to work out different schedules with my.kids father
@athenia823, I love it, I would lie even though it’s an awarding job it’s the hardest job I’ve ever had,and I won’t lie not having as much interaction with people who are my own age is tough.
@athenia823 I try to get out a few times a week and go grocery shopping or to the park or something. I indulge my hobbies like gardening, knitting and reading and include my son in them. I just feel like I don't monetarily contribute and that bothers me
@athenia823 I love it I wouldn't change it for anything yes its lonely at times but I have spent the past 4 years with my son watching him and all his 1st
@dragontrainer1 that is something to think about I'm so happy to spend all this time with with kids but it really does get overwhelming at times
@athenia823 it's very overwhelming I used to work two full time jobs daily before I got pregnant and I still had energy being a sahm kicks my butt most days and its hard and never ending. But they are only little for so long where they needs us all the time and I know that i didn't want to miss this stage in life. Pretty soon he will be even more independent and have friends and I will have more time for myself then.
👋👋 me