It really amazes me how complete strangers or ppl who isn’t a family member is supportive or positive when you give them news that your expecting like they babysit or even help in anyway with your kids... I have 4 kids and nobody in our family on both sides help babysit or provide for them nor do we call for any help and they are so negative if me and my husband want 30 kids that’s our buisness we not asking for a hand out .... I can’t stand judgemental ppl if your not supportive carry on 🥾➡️➡️➡️➡️