I need help, but I don't want to be judged. My husband an I have been having problems with our marriage for 2 years and a half, he's cheated on me 6 times and I've been so faithful and calm. But for some reason I met a guy and he caught my attention and I fell in love with and I know it was wrong but I did something I shouldn't have but at the time it felt so right. My husband and I had lost a baby on the 15the of October and I had relations with this guy on the 28th my breasts have been feeling so tender and body so sore what can this mean?
Please like I said don't judge me I already have had enough this week so many threats my husband beat me and I've list a lot of people I know I did wrong I just need advice
I meant I'm moving in April, sorry I was at work and typed it as fast as I could. But yes I plan to move in April. @leonardsquared
Hey girls I'm OK, haven't had access to a phone in a while I am okaii I left him, I did it. I moved to Houston in april to get a fresh start and get my daughters back. And to start the divorce process. He wanted to force me to stay with him even though I don't love him and am not happy but I was tired of being miserable and scared every time he would get close to me that I left. Thank you Moms I really don't know how I let my life get to this point.
Good for you girl! You're doing what's best for you and your daughters. You don't want them growin up thinkin that's how a guy is supposed to treat a woman. I hope you guys are doing great and are able to build an awesome life for yourselves. GOOD LUCK MAMA!!!
@leonardsquared thankyou hun and that's the plan my girls never have to see that again its not right. My oldest was so scared so that y i let him mom take them so we can deal with the rest here
Has anyone heard from this woman??!! I REALLY hope you're ok Mama! PLEASE message me if you need ANYTHING!
Go stay at a shelter at this point he needs help don’t stay with. Woman beater no mater what u did that’s not a reason don’t put up with that
Thanks hun I will try the me thing I definitely need it. I've been so caught uo trying yo be perfect for him, his family and got nothing but stress and depression. My girls have been the ones helping me have better days and that's why I know I need yo give them better things in life. And thank-you losing another baby killed me it was hard I couldn't even let friends and family know because it hurts to talk about. And I know my marriage has been lost for a long while no but he never agreed to a divorce he said that if he can't have me boone can
@steviemariemalm I don't have family near me they are all in Texas my parents passed so I can't even call them and I am so scared, if I am pregnant this time it won't just be a beating anymore.
I'm sorry for your loss hun. I know it can take a while for your body to go back to normal after losing a baby. I would def contact your doctor and let him know what's going on so they can make sure everything is okay. As for your husband. It seems like your marriage isn't very healthy, at all. I would leave him and focus on some you time. If he's cheated on you, he will cheat again. Now that you've been unfaithful as well, I would say your marriage is now over. It's time to move on love. Take care of your babies. Work on building yourself up and when your ready the right person will come your way ♥️
I'm so happy to see your response! If you ever need anything please message me! Stay strong love! ♥️♥️