I literally go back and forth so much with wanting another baby. Like it took us so long to finally make the choice to…
I literally go back and forth so much with wanting another baby. Like it took us so long to finally make the choice to have another with my last baby. And now I feel like I know I want another baby cause I want a big family, but then I get in moods like this where I’m completely freaked out by the whole idea and want nothing to do with it. I had the most serious baby fever and was secretly hoping to have a missed period each month but now I’m back to like panic if I don’t take a pill and am literally like “pregnant??? Newborn??? EW NO THANKS” 😂🙃
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I'm still like this and I'm 22 wks today lol. My husband wanted us to wait until our daughter was 2 to try again but I got serious baby fever and convinced him to let us try and got pregnant the same month. Sometimes I freak out at the fact that I'll have 2 babies in diapers and all the work I'll have to do. But then I'm like omg I cant wait to have her
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I had my first two 18 months apart and I remember that same panic. It won’t be as bad as you’re thinking I promise lol. I won’t lie and say it’s easy but it’s definitely not as bad as we hype up in our heads. But I know IF we do really have another, I won’t do it until my youngest starts school. Just because I don’t wanna do two again but also because I’ll know if I really wanna start over or if I’m happy with just three who aren’t babies anymore.
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I think that's a great idea. I don't regret getting pregnant but some days it's so hard with my daughter that I cry and I think about the other one and ask my self what did I do lol. In the beginning it was smoothe sailing. Never had any problems with her so I thought another wont be so bad. But lately she's really making me nervous about the other one coming
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yeah I went through the same thing. I just think they can sense it so they wanna get all the extra attention they can. If you include her on pretty much everything you do with the new baby, she will feel special and important and won’t be as jealous because it will be something you and her do together so even though you’re giving the baby attention, she’s still getting attention by having you make it like you couldn’t do this without her helping you.