So I wanted to say this because I seen this meme with the shrugging and the laughing emoji saying you choose who you…

So I wanted to say this because I seen this meme with the shrugging and the laughing emoji saying you choose who you have a baby with. I 100% agree. However, some men are very misleading.. When I was with my daughter’s father he let it be known that he prides his self on two things and that’s protecting and providing. Her father has two other daughters outside of my daughter. I witnessed this man care and do for his daughters through the course of our relationship and he still to this very day takes care of them. I got close with his family and I spent almost every weekend with them. He was very good to me in the beginning in every way. My daughter’s father and I decided we wanted a baby. Granted, we wanted a boy but you obviously can’t control that. So my daughter was no accident. We never used protection and not once did he pull out because we were TTC. He promised so many things for my daughter and For me. Marriage, a house, support, my daughter’s necessities.. He Helped pick out my daughter’s name and everything because he wanted the baby’s name to be of Greek origin as his name is.. But as I got further along, things shifted. He was different. He didn’t go to any appointments with me and his attitude about our baby was hot and cold. I eventually grew tired of the roller coaster and feeling alone during my pregnancy and I broke up with him. I never once treated him bad because of it, or closed the door of him being in her life because like we all say, men don’t bond with the baby like we do during pregnancy. I still sent him pictures and kept him updated even though at times he never responded or if he did, he showed no interest in her. When i went into labor I let him know when and where I would be and he said good luck and that she better not have 6 toes. He has seen my daughter twice and she is a year old. Once willingly because his mom wanted us to spend thanksgiving with her and the second time due to child support court. He hasn’t done anything for her, there are no calls, no texts, and still no interest in my daughter🤷🏽‍♀️. I don’t bad mouth him, treat him bad, and the door is still open for him to be in her life. But I just wanted it to be known that yes I chose to make a baby with him so I take responsibility for my choices and I have never looked back, but I refuse to be labeled as the reason that he is not in her life because “I chose him”. I know I don’t have to explain any of this, but I just know that men will be men. I’ve tried everything I could in my power for my daughter’s sake. I feel like I did everything I could to make sure my daughter had a great father then and now. The ONLY thing I didn’t do then was marriage. But that still doesn’t guarantee a father, and look who I would’ve been married to..