I'm a surrogate for my uncle they aren't paying me for the baby and I currently live with them but…
I'm a surrogate for my uncle they aren't paying me for the baby and I currently live with them but every time I ask them to take me anywhere including doctor's appointment they tell me no or make me ride the bus or walk everywhere I recently just stop working and every time I turn around they wanna kick me out bc "I'm not paying bills" but I give them money when they ask I buy my uncle cigarettes and give them gas money for them to get around remind you they hardly will give me rides and I also put food in the house when I get food stamps his mom eats everything in sight no matter what it is so we run out of food quick half the time they cook they only make them food mind you I'm pregnant with their child so am I wrong if I just leave and don't give them the baby they always tell people if I leave with a friend take her and don't bring her back they say their joking but it hurts my feelings and it's kinda humiliating and he says his boyfriend has no faith in this baby being born I'm so ready to leave but I have no where to go currently I'm ready to take me and my 1yr old to a shelter bc of how they treat us we sleep on a couch In the living room and they complain about me having a bucket of clothes in the living room and the playpen but I have no where else to put it they gave me a shelf in a closet to put my stuff in but it doesn't all fit in there
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Wtf would u want your child in that environment I would consider another family because if they treat u like that imagine how they would treat a kid you should go to. A shelter until baby’s born and find another family idk why that would be acceptable to you ppl only treat you how you allow ive been in a shelter pregnant with oldest when she was three they will help you find resources they sound like a bunch of freeloaders they obviously aren’t gonna do right by that baby smh if your thinking about doing it because you want to see the kid and not take care of it I wouldn’t choose that shitty family 😭💯 they have families and programs that pay for everything they can’t afford that baby
Ken··
I didn't do it bc I didn't wanna take care of the baby I did it bc theyve wanted kids for so long we were on good terms til I moved in with them but they asked me to stay here
Your Worst Nightmare 😘··
dam chick I wouldn’t have it 🙅🏼♀️ they sound petty I’m sure there’s families that would love that baby without all the extra bs they act like there already broke smh sorry girl I hope you consider a better life for him 😭💯
Ken··
honestly I'm just going to keep the baby the man I conceived the baby with doesn't want me to give them the baby he said he's willingly to take care of his responsibility and that we need to leave
Your Worst Nightmare 😘··
that’s good girl as long as it’s taken care of and he’s willing to try that’s all you can do good luck 🍀 I hope you stick with it it will be challenging
jenna tess·
The term Surrogate can only be used with another’s egg + sperm are being used. Only when you’re the “incubator”.
What they are are adoptive parents.