Amanda
mysonsmommy
Amanda·Мама сына-младенца

I’m feeling so upset over something I can’t change. 6 weeks ago I had a c-section(non emergency) but if I continued with labor he would of ended in an emergency so the drs gave me the choice of what I wanted to do which if either way it was going be a c-section I didn’t want it to be an emergency. My husband was in the room with me and he didn’t bring his phone ( he ALWAYS has that dang thing on him) so I didn’t think I had to tell him to bring it for them to takes Picts after he was born. I was so out of so I thought I was hearing things and heard them ask my husband for his phone to take pictures and he said he didn’t bring it in. I’m so upset I see so many pictures of woman and their partner with the baby when it’s first born and knowing that we don’t have that makes me upset sure we have pictures from the hospital but we don’t have any in the surgery room. He said he didn’t think he was suppose to bring it in since it was surgery I didn’t say much about it all I really said was if you weren’t suppose to they would of said that. I’m probably over reacting which is why my husband doesn’t know how I feel about it since it’s not like we can go back and change it

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kaitlinbaker23
Kaitlin❤👑·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)

I 100% get what you’re feeling. I was put under for my emergency csection and I didn’t get any pics either ☹️ I’m hoping it will be different for me this time

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scruffy.nerf.herder
Heather·Мама сына (7 лет)

Oh momma, I’m so sorry 😔 I hope your next delivery goes smoothly.

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scruffy.nerf.herder
Heather·Мама сына (7 лет)

Oh hun, I get what you’re feeling, I really do! I have one child, and we ended up in C-section after me pushing for two hours. My husband and I were so worn out and out of it, that we were just trying to get through it in one piece.

My hubs didn’t capture that magical moment when they brought baby to me to say hi (and then whisked him away again). My husband only took a picture of our son in the bassinet when he was being weighed for the first time, and I actually think it was a nurse who took the pic.

I feel sad about not having those very first moments captured for posterity, and I don’t get a re-do - there’s no more babies for us.

I wonder if you’re also feeling some sadness that the delivery didn’t go as planned? I know I sure did! I still get wistful that I’ll never get to experience a normal delivery, but at least we made it through alive. Hang in there sweetie! And if you need a friendly listening ear, feel free to message me 💜💜

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ltee
LT·Мама дочки (3 года)

I’m sure it feels like a horrible thing right now but that’s just because it’s so fresh. I honestly don’t think this will matter much in the future when you have photos of a million other events in your baby’s life.

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