So.. my husbands family has always celebrated Christmas in Christmas Eve, and my family on Christmas. Worked out great cuz that meant we didn’t have to split time.
But last year, money was tight so everyone (on the hubs side) decided to do their own thing. Ok with me, saved us money and I got it. My husband tho, got a little hurt cuz we finally have babies to celebrate Christmas with, and his sisters who all have grown kids now, don’t even want to buy presents for our babies, just to give them the Christmas experience.
And this year! While at my daughters third bday party, I overheard his family try to sort out Christmas again.
The plan was, for the adults to split into couples, put their names in a hat and do secret Santa as couples. The teenagers and young single kids do secret Santa themselves, and then they told me... to switch kids with my niece, because she has three babies too.
So I flat out said “or we could skip buying presents for the adults, and just buy for the kids since Christmas is more for them anyways”
Was I out of line or did you read that like “WTF?” Too!?!?