autumnrenea1990
AutumnRenea
I Just Wanna End My Life ....If Things Cant Get Any Worse I Am Pregnant Again i am not mentally or phyiscally able to go through another 9 months , i have no family or support and i am in a toxic relationship that i cant get out of...i am so done with life man
08.10.2019
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niyomi1244
I understand you’re going through a hard time but condoms aren’t that expensive, and there’s many forms of birth control, get out of that relationship it’s not good.
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caffeinated.chaos
I highly doubt condoms will help now that she is pregnant 😑 she clearly is reaching out for some support. Telling her things she already knows, is probably not going to help the situation currently. Honesty is important, but there’s a way to say it. Maybe offer her some suggestions on getting out of a toxic relationship, or options for an unwanted pregnancy?
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harleyquinn13
A lot of people might not like this answer, but you have options. But know you should really think things through. And with that said, you also have options on how to get out - there are so many resources for women who are in your position.
Please reach out for help ❤️
Please reach out for help ❤️
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autumnrenea1990
I know alot of you may judge me but i made a appointment to get a abortion i cant have this baby like this 😔my mental state is shocked and i have to get away from my kids father ....he doesnt abuse me physically but mentally and he trys to control me ,but not no more because i have made the choice to leave as soon as i can ......i have no family or friends to help me so everything is all on me please pray for me and my kids
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bad_ass_barbie
This is heartbreaking. My inbox is ALWAYS open if you want to talk or just vent, message me whenever! Reach out to family or friends. Also talk to your doctor about these feelings. & like many mommas above said please call the number listed if no one is around to talk to you & look into shelters to get away from that toxic relationship. You are important, amazing & strong! DO NOT GIVE UP!!! Praying 4 u & sending lite & love your way.
PLEASE check in w/us moms so we know your okay!
PLEASE check in w/us moms so we know your okay!
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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice
May I ask, what state are you in? I want to look into something that may help with the option you want to pursue.
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kush_queen420
Go to a shelter girl they can help get resources your baby’s need you 😭
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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice
Contact Planned Parenthood. Hopefully they are still able to assist you with whatever route you choose to take. Try your best to get out even if you have to leave all your belongings behind. Contact your ob so she/he can provide you with information to seek help for your depression.
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caffeinated.chaos
@autumnrenea1990, how are you doing? Please respond, so we know you’re okay!
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autumnrenea1990
@caffeinated.chaos i am at my breaking point i dont feel strong anymore
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caffeinated.chaos
@autumnrenea1990, have you looked into a shelter? A women’s shelter sounds very scary. Especially when you have 4 small children. But they have the resources to help you get into your own home. And away from him. Do you work? Could you put your checks into a separate account, and leave when you have enough for a down payment on an apartment?
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sherrynygirl
@autumnrenea1990, I found this in the area I saw you did post “ they take in women with children &pregnant women and can help you in so many ways with housing ASAP emergency,job finding,daycare assistance &”YOU Just have to GO ! Do what’s best for you and your mental health ! Here’s the Info “Wayne county Family Center it’s located 30600 Michigan Ave Westland,Michigan they open tomorrow from 9am- 5pm and their phone number is 734 -721-O590
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sherrynygirl
@autumnrenea1990, planned parenthood and other centers from what I know help on sliding fee scales if you have a job or not and maybe other requirements depends on the state ,,I highly recommend to leave your situation 1st and be safe with your children where NO one can hurt you and you do know if you were to go to a woman’s center it’s confidential So your man won’t find info on you ! Make a plan ,take your children and Go ! And once your in the women’s center they can help you look for a job and get job stability “remember these places help women who make an Effort as well to help themselves “ You’ll be okay and they help also with medical places so you can talk to someone who can help you feel like You again don’t be ashamed to ask for help Takes a lot of courage ❤️
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sherrynygirl
maybe also when you take your older children to school leave then so it looks normal hopefully by then he’ll be going to work,they have buses and places that might even help you get to the center you have to call and show up ,
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hotmessmom08
I can understand how you feel. And idc if i get attacked for this, its ok to get an abortion if you would be risking your life to carry this baby. And i do think suicidal thoughts are a risk to your life.
It isnt a fix all button though. I have had one and it was not easy. But it was the right choice for me at the time and i stand by it.
I know how it feels to feel stuck. And i know how hard it is to leave. But it is possible.
Feel free to msg me i am happy to listen. I hope ur ok.
If you are in the united states please call 911 for help if you are really thinking of suicide. Or call the emergency number for your country.
It isnt a fix all button though. I have had one and it was not easy. But it was the right choice for me at the time and i stand by it.
I know how it feels to feel stuck. And i know how hard it is to leave. But it is possible.
Feel free to msg me i am happy to listen. I hope ur ok.
If you are in the united states please call 911 for help if you are really thinking of suicide. Or call the emergency number for your country.
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autumnrenea1990
I desperately want to get a abortion but its expensive i am hoping i can get the money in time cuz according to this pregnancy app and my period i am 5weeks
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hpgame
Wow dont think like that... hang in there girl get some help before anything... make sure u get on some birth control.. ❤
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harleyquinn13
A lot of people might not like this answer, but you have options. But know you should really think things through. And with that said, you also have options on how to get out - there are so many resources for women who are in your position.
Please reach out for help ❤️
Please reach out for help ❤️
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caffeinated.chaos
Those babies need their mother. They need YOU. Please reach out to someone. Anyone! There are resources around! It will be okay momma.
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niyomi1244
I understand you’re going through a hard time but condoms aren’t that expensive, and there’s many forms of birth control, get out of that relationship it’s not good.
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rosemom
@caffeinated.chaos, I think what she meant to say was to take precautions, if she was already in a bad relationship to maybe avoid getting pregnant again, so things wouldn’t get tougher. There’s many resources to get out, many non-profit organizations that could help as well.
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caffeinated.chaos
@rosemom, but that’s beside the point... she is already pregnant. I totally understand the concept of the comment, I just don’t understand how that is relevant now. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
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hotmessmom08
Not to be rude but im sure she knows that. That doesnt help her situation right now. And we dont know her whole story.
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jellybeans33
I’m so sorry you’re feeling that way mama. But please reach out for help. Your babies need you.
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