Up at 12:30 till 5....my daughters reflux is no joke on top of being incredibly congested. She cant…

Up at 12:30 till 5....my daughters reflux is no joke on top of being incredibly congested. She cant sleep at all. Also my 10 year old son disobeys my daughters father tonthe point where its frustrating. He actually yelled at him and told him im not getting dressed for school until my mom tells me to. And i was so tired this morning i couldn't keep my eyes open. Literally. Im just so stressed. I hope i can figure out how to explain to my son how he talks to adults isnt ok. I tell him everyday more then once to not talk to adults the way he does. He talks to aggressively most times. Doesnt matter what k say he will do it anyways