It really sucks when someone sees YOU as the problem. Yes how i react to situations lately have been…
It really sucks when someone sees YOU as the problem. Yes how i react to situations lately have been completely wrong and i feel so out of control. But that doesnt excuse the cause and whats happened for years and years. Someone who sees the aftermath instead of acknowledging the situation. Someone doesnt see a problem with themselves wont ever change. Its really heartbreaking and has been a complete waste of my time
2020 i pray will be better. This year has started off so bad from day 1 and has gotten emensley worse day by day. Only thing good out of this year is my newest daughter. 2019 sure has taught me dont ignore the red flags in the beginning because it will only blow up in your face. And not to believe words but actions.... In fact 2018 and 2019 probably have been the worst 2 years in my life that i can think of. Im due for a good year. 3 more months till 2020. Cant believe it
melissa·
I feel this soooo much!!!!!! Praying for you❣🙏
Amanda··
Мама троих детей
Thank you. You too
brooke·
Мама сына-младенца
I understand. You can’t change anyone. I tried for almost 2 years even had a son with him. Nothing worked now I’m lonely, depressed, stay at home mom and going crazy.
Amanda··
Мама троих детей
Same boat. Going on 3 years its been this. Ive learned you cant change someone who cant see a problem with themselves and so that means they dont want to change. Both senerios will be just a waste of time
Ss3mom·
Oh girl can I relate to the first part of this post. I’ve learned this this past weekend. My situation isn’t nearly as bad as yours but here’s what happened with me. I was at a “friends” house and another women was a bit rude to me. Well I told my dh then he went and said something to the “friend”. Then it was made into this huge deal. I was called out for saying I was a little offended by what the other women said but no one cares that she was rude to me. It’s almost comical imo, what’s happened with me anyway. So it’s ok to be rude but not ok to be offended. I learned that one the hard way. Now I put friend in quotes because I really thought she was a friend but turns out I was being used by her to make another groups of women jealous. I’m not even kidding g u this is like grade school bullshit. It’s amazing how people can look over the reason for being offended but I’m the problem because I was offended by what the person said. It’s a ducking joke.
To talk about the 2nd part of your post I’m really sorry the last 2 years have been so bad for u and I really do hope things get better. It sounds like it will because u control what happens in your life!! I can tell you’re working to make your life better for u and the kids. Keep your head up and do what’s best for u and your children. Best of luck to a better year for u!!
Amanda··
Мама троих детей
Wow. Thats just silly. Lol can be rude but not offended. And thank you
Ss3mom··
yep that’s what I got out of the whole situation. Ass backwards of u ask me!! Again I know things are going to get better for u because you’re going to make sure they do!!