I should never have to ask a man to come see his kid
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Unfortunately we women don’t have that luxury of just cashing out or switching when we feel like being a mom or not. If we did I don’t think we could any way by nature. Plus I always say if a guy comes then disappears for weeks/months and pops up again, I personally feel that does more damage than good to the children I’d rather do it alone but that’s just my opinion.
You don’t need to that’s not your responsibility period. Just do you’re part as Mother ❤️he’s roaming free now but when he’s in his 80’s defecting on himself he’ll be wondering where his children are. 💁🏽♀️ btw I agree with meadlenaya
I don’t even ask my kids dad I’m not begging for him to see them and if he wants a relationship with them He has to be a real dad not just in and out that’s not how it works my one year old son doesn’t even know him because of it
No you should but as a mother you have to do what you have to do to keep your kids happy unfortunately. Even if that means calling a man to see his kids . Sad he can’t do it with you telling him too.
I’m so frustrated and annoyed, like it’s so easy for a man to pick and choose when he wants to deal with his son. I tell him the only person that will keep him from his son is hisself. T don’t get to have free time like him I don’t get to just walk out when I please. Not saying my son is a burden on me but what the hell..!!!!
@felicity300079, I can’t imagine or begin to understand your frustration because I’m not in that situation but I want to tell you that your son is lucky to have you . Stay strong and don’t give up . Hopefully it gets better . It definitely is much easier for men . They don’t have to do nothing , no obligation ms to the kids they made . But us moms barley get to lick our feet up with kids . We do t get to do what they do . No it’s not complaining it’s the truth. One day he will wish he did more . And I’m sure it means a lot to your child that you make sure his dad comes see him even if your child doesn’t know you are the reason. That bond with dad is important.
Hell no get child support and move you’ve seen his true colors