I got given one handover letter on her first day n that was it lol which also has me thinking she's done nothing but ball her eyes out the whole of the day 😣 if she was upset the whole time would they even tell me? Wouldn't sound good to any mum to read "was very upset all day". I did notice that one cry can set them all off. Dropped Madison off one morning, she was happy as Larry till Violet (crying girl I mentioned further up) came over blubbering and then her little chin started shaking with a sad face 😭 I just want her to be happy n she normally is all the time anyway so it's hard to see her upset x

@clarelushx You should get a rough handover on her day so ask if they don't offer it initially. When starting they should have explained how they will be keeping track of her development. Most nurseries use Tapestry but it may be paper form if not. You get notifications of this if set up. Or it might come home monthly or at parents evenings etc. If you have any questions or concerns speak to them. That's what there there for. Or call up, send an email if you want to query anything. It's rare that a child cries non stop from drop off to pick up. Very rare. Starting nursery is a big deal. Sometimes just as hard for parents lol. It just takes time to adjust.

@20162019 I've just started studying at college. 2 full days, 2 half days. She'd have to get used to that type of thing at some stage. Will the same thing happen at a different nursery though? Or am I best of giving her time to get used to it? Xx

@clarelushx, it’s hard to say... My daughter is in a small nursery. She’s been there since she was 2 and I’ve never had a problem, in the baby room there was never anymore than 5-6 other kids so it was never overwhelming for her. I don’t know if you’ve got any smaller nurseries where you are?

@20162019 I'll have a look around. It is really loud in the room she's in so you might have a point. More than likely is overwhelming her xx