My MIL said today, my 2nd pregnancy is hard as 1st pregnancy. So no more pregnancy and I am not healthy like others or comparing her pregnancy experience. So dont try for 3rd one for son. I kind of making up my mind that This might be the last one. 1st one induced when i was 37weeks due to high blood pressure, 2nd one bedrest since 34weeks.. I am the one taking all this high risks for having lovely babies. I choose this over anything!who the hell are telling ke that i am not healthy and dont go for another one? She may be worried about my health. But the way of she was saying hurts my feeling big time. My husband said she didnt mean to. But I was so pissed. What do you think? Am i just too sensitive??
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Everybody has different health conditions and experiences. We all know that we are doing the best for the baby and us. Noone should talk any shit or judgements. No matter who they are.....
I don’t think you’re too sensitive. It’s a hard decision to make when you’ve already had complicated pregnancies, but that’s a decision for you, your husband, and your OBGYN to make- no one else. I had my first at 40 weeks with no major issues, my second at 29 weeks due to severe preeclampsia and almost another condition called HELLP syndrome, and then my third I just had last week at 35w2d due to severe preeclampsia again. I’d like to consider a fourth child one day but I wouldn’t let anyone else decide that for me. It’s nice when people care..I guess, but it’s not their decision to make.
Thank you for your msg. I totally agree with you. I am going to induce next Tuesday when i am 37weeks and 2days. Because baby's weight is growing slow. 4.13lb now. But no preeclampsia yet. It s reallt stressful but as you know, it s worthy having lovely babies.
They just talk shit they said if I had a kid any bigger then three pds I’d die stfu 😂 I had 5 and 7 and I’ll keep going my first was preemie two mths next one a month early same with the 3rd