Opinions please, my oh is going to Amsterdam with friends clubbing etc in October when I’m 38 weeks pregnant! I’m a gestational diabetic on insulin and am also on iron for anaemia, he knows I’m vomiting regularly still and have tough pregnancies. I’m exhausted and have a 14 month old and a 7 year old. Due to previous complications I am a c-section which will be latest 39 weeks but I won’t have exact date booked in for another week and a half.
Apparently everyone he’s spoken to including women at his work seem to think this is fine, literally he says no one has said it’s not a great idea to leave me which really bothers me because I can’t find anyone my end that thinks it’s acceptable! We have very limited help, my mum and dad would have the children if I went into labour but as for a birthing partner ?? All my friends and family have children and work etc etc. Am I going mad thinking it’s a pretty selfish and crap thing to do?? not only incase I go into labour but what with looking after the other 2 alone and being at risk of hypos on the insulin I’m really not impressed!! Oh and I’m working full time up until 38.5 weeks! 😳🙈