Janell
lovelily0106
Janell·Мама дочки (5 лет)

Soooooo this is my first baby. I found out about three weeks ago but haven’t told my mom yet. Although I’m 27, on my own, and working, I feel like she will be disappointed because I’m not married 😩 she’s super traditional, and I’m her baby and only daughter. How can I break it to her easy?

Sn: we are going on a trip to New York, just us, for a week in like 2 weeks. Should I tell her then?

09.09.2019

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mommy1991
rashel·Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет)

I was 24. Had been with my bf for 5 years. We lived on our own. I wasn't planning on being pregnant for a while but when we weren't using protection it's a risk we took. I was terrified. I was so scared to let my family down. I've been told my whole life to not get pregnant young and even though I was 24 and in a commited relationship I felt like I was sixteen and still living at home in that moment. I went over when she was home and my dad was working late. We ate dinner together and I told her. I cried. I told her that I didn't want anyone to be ashamed of me or be dissapointed in me. My mom basically said that if I was happy about being pregnant than she was happy. We decided to keep the baby. My mom told my dad and my dad didn't understand why I was so scared to tell him lol my grandparents (very religious and traditional) were brpught to tears with excitement because I would be making them great grandparents. I was so overwhelmed with all the support that I was sure I wasn't going to get. Moral of the story is that it might go over so much better than you think it will. And it's so normal to have some anxiety about it

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lovelily0106
Janell·Мама дочки (5 лет)

@mommy1991, thank you so much for the encouragement

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mommy1991
rashel·Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет)

@lovelily0106 you're so welcome. And congradulations on your pregnancy. I hope it goes super smoothly and everyone is happy and healthy.

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lovelily0106
Janell·Мама дочки (5 лет)

@mommy1991, with this app, and all the advice, I’m sure it will 💜

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