I feel this too. I’m not necessarily ashamed that I had a c section, it’s just that I hate the scar. Makes shaving difficult, and it still hurts and itch. The recovery was sooooo difficult, and I wanted to have a vaginal delivery. I’m afraid of having another c section. So much so, that it honestly makes me not want anymore babies, just because of everything I went through and the recovery. Really wish I had a different experience overall, but hey it was out of my control. Even the postpartum depression. But I’m just trying to take it day by day girl and be proud of the fact that I made it through regardless of all of that. I understand your struggles so I feel confident enough to tell you that regardless if we ever get to push or not, we did it the way it was supposed to happen for us. Our bodies and the baby made the call, so it was ultimately what’s best. Don’t feel ashamed. It was still giving birth, You are still here, and so are your babies and everyone is healthy and that’s all that matters!! Lots of love hun 💕

I had a vag n I was induced I felt like was going to go on a rampage they gave a epidural last minute and half of me was numb half if me felt so much pain and the nurse told me to rate my pain I told her how can I when half if me feels pain and half dont so I told her 6 and she told me no i said what so no matter what what ur not missing out pain no pain there's nothing to miss out were beautiful beings we deliver in any way possible to bring out beauty's in to this world

Girl! Vaginal, C section, surrogate, adoption idgaf ❤️💪🏽 WE ARE MOTHER’S!

I delivered strapped down to a table, cut open, my guts and insides moved aside, and my son ripped from my body. Does that make me less of a mother? Ok but it makes me more of a badass 💪 😈 don't let them say that you are less of a mother. I did what I needed to do to make sure my son was born healthy and alive!

I hope to have a vbac next time

As someone who gave birth vaginally, ill say this. You’re a god damn badass. You had major surgery, you recovered from that with a newborn. You brought life into this world, doing whatever it took. C-section, or vaginal, medicated or non medicated. Be proud. You created and brought life into this world!

What's the regular way?

Delivering through the playdough fun factory of life is not a fun way to deliver either. I’ve had a vaginal and a c section, they both suck. 😭 don’t feel like you’re missing out on anything.