My fiancé just lost 2 family members with in a few weeks apart I don’t know how to be there for him he won’t let me be there for him and I am trying to be but he won’t let me what can I do to help him
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Im so sorry. Let him know your here if he needs you. When someone passes I like to be too myself for awhile. Just let him have some space if that's what he wants and he will come around.
Jst tell him you love him and you will always be there for him if he ever needs someone to talk to .or a shoulder to lean on !
Just be there for him. Don't be pushy or try to force him to open up or anything. Just tell him you're here for him and let him open up when he's ready.
Just remind him you’re here for him if he needs you. That’s all you really can do. You have to let someone grieve the way they want to. Forcing someone to talk about it when they’re not ready doesn’t help. As long as he knows he has your support, that’s all you can offer at this point.
Yea I am trying but he just pushes me away it what scares me if it wasn’t for me living here I would of never found his grandpa and now his grandma I just feel so bad for him and don’t know what to do he doesn’t want to talk or anything
@gracelover, as my husband said after his grandma died, me just being there helped. He didn’t talk about his feelings. He didn’t talk about much, really. He was just thankful I was there with him. Guys don’t really talk about this kind of stuff too much. You can’t really expect them to open up about it. Just wait until he wants to talk about it, if he even chooses to.