I like how when I get upset about my first born whom I lost when I was 21 weeks pregnant people go…

I like how when I get upset about my first born whom I lost when I was 21 weeks pregnant people go yea but that was 11 years ago.. ok? And? He was still my son, I had to Bury him, I got to hold him and not take him with me, and I a had to watch him have a heart beat but not being able to breathe I dont care how long it's been still affects me 😔😔