Always had issues with trust. So the other night, my husband asks if it’s okay to go out with a male…
Always had issues with trust. So the other night, my husband asks if it’s okay to go out with a male friend and that he’d be back at 4 am. I trusted him, and went with that! Didn’t text him all night as I wanted him to know I truly am trying to be more fully trusting. For him to come home the next day and I see that he got a girls number from the club and that she’s double texting him at 12 am. He says of course everyone’s having a good time there and are drunk and that everyone exchanges number... but the thing is 2 weeks ago he tells me he had feelings for a girl he’s grown up with. We were doing so fine until he started getting girls number when he goes out at places. I’m due in 2 weeks and all I feel to do is cry.. and not looking forward to the newborn life.
diana♡·
Мама двоих (младенец)
If he truly loves you , he wouldn’t dare to hurt you in any way.
apple ❤️··
Мама дочки-младенца
You’re right :( I don’t even know what to do. I love this guy so much and since I’ve told him how it hurt me he’s stopped texting her and told her to leave him alone and has vowed to me to stop with texting of other girls after certain hours. I just feel like.. all he’s trying to do is show me that he doesn’t care anymore and that he’s just going to do what he wants to do
diana♡··
Мама двоих (младенец)
if he still does his crap after you talking to him about it. Then just leave. If he isn’t going to respect the fact that he has you &’ his baby. Then he doesn’t deserve you.
diana♡·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’ve been in the same situation &’ we’ve talked about it. We agreed to start over from scratch. &’ if we loose feelings &’ what not , then we mind as well go our ways. It’s not fair for each other nor for the kids. My kid is 3 years old. &’ he knows when mom &’ dad are mad. Or if we fight. Kids shouldn’t be in the middle of us (adults) problema.
apple ❤️··
Мама дочки-младенца
Yes. That’s so what I want to do. We had a rough situation 3 weeks ago but I promised him I wanted to fully commit and try one last time to better the things that could be changed, trust him more, and not argue over so many meaningless things and my effort has been turning out very well but on his end.. the number thing just threw me off. I’m contemplating giving up now because it’s like I’m pregnant.. literally and I have a 10 month old I take care of everyday like why would you want to put me through all this as if I’m not already dealing with so much
diana♡··
Мама двоих (младенец)
it’s hard love! I’m not going to lie. I found out my husband was doing things behind my back. Through my entire pregnancy. It was horrible! Not going to lie. But I’m one of those people that forgive you&’ actually want things to work out between each other. Despite of what happened. But I need to see a change ! If I don’t then why the hell am i still here.? If I don’t blush when my hubby says sweet things then why am I wasting my time! You know.
It’s the little things that hurt the most. Especially when your pregnant. Your hormones are all over! I know that you don’t want to suffer any more. I really hope y’all are able to work things out love. It’s very hard I understand. But if things don’t work out. You have to do what you gotta do. Especially for your kids.
I’m here if you ever want to talk love.
💕
Ann··
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
you have to do what's best for you and your child.. Simply_mee I don't know how either of you do it.. But all I can say is fallow your hearts. It's going to be heard but in the end either of you deserve to be treated like that.
Shay·
He shouldn't be getting anyone's number at a club or anywhere for that matter. He's a married man with a baby on the way.
You don't deserve that nonsense. It seems you've dealt with this for a while and that sucks. Know your worth 🖤 Regardless if you've had trust issues, there is a very valid reason for you to have him. He's being hella sketchy and untrustworthy. That's not on you, that's on him.
Hope things get better for you! 🖤🖤🖤
Blank·
I used to go to the club a lot before kids. You don’t just get people’s numbers. 🚩 🚩🚩🚩 be done with him. I know easier said than done but clearly he doesn’t love or respect you.