Rant: I used to brag about how helpful and amazing my husband was with our son. He was perfect until he went back to work in May. I get he works 70 hours a week but I don’t remember the last diaper he’s changed or bottle he’s given. I work full time too and do pick up and drop if for daycare and bedtime.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
is it wrong of me to be upset my bf works a lot? he works 6 days a week, nights. & on his day off he sleeps all day. i never see him, spend time with him, i’m not intimate with him, nothing. i only get help from him when he’s awake bc he wants to be left alone to sleep which is understandable. he gets mad i complain that he works too much. & i was talking to a girl at my job about it and she said i shouldn’t be mad bc he’s making money & told me who wouldn’t want their man making money? & it’s not even about that it’s the fact i’m a single mom 6 days a week and never spend time w my bf. am i wrong for being upset or should i be happy he’s working a lot?
Why am I happier when my husband leaves for work but not when he’s home🤷🏽 ♀ can’t wait for 6:30 so he can leave
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
When can I start giving my son regular milk? He turns 10 months in 2 days. I bought unsweetened almond milk yesterday so he can try. Would that be okay? I’m lowkey tired of him on formula but I mean he’s still a baby lol.
Anna·
70 is a lot I wouldn’t expect much from my husband at that point lol mine is 49 a week I’m lucky if I can take a bath alone
E··
I totally agree and I don’t feel like I expect much. I’m totally fine with doing bedtimes and everything alone but I wish he would just hold him while he eats a bottle or small things like that
Ashley Mcenaney·
Mine works like 30-40 hours and hasnt changed a diaper in years and never made bottles for my kids. It's tough, have you asked him why hes slacking?
Ashley Mcenaney··
@price.emil mine does lawn care so same situation but mine still doesnt help 🤦♀️
E··
yeah I feel like I should be grateful for when he does help but I hate that it always falls on the mom to do everything and guys get praised when they do one little thing 🤦♀️
Ashley Mcenaney··
@price.emil a freaking men