i have a 26 yr old autistic brother. and i and my mother let him thes things. (please make it in list format and explain why).
(we make him behave in public but at our/his house we don't care what he does as long as he's not hurting himself or others).
1. running butt naked (even infront of company). if hes more comfortable that way i shud i put clothes on him? and btw we have all wood floors so pee and poop wipe up easily. (were still working potty training.)
2. scream and shout. if he can't or won't talk he screams (i only allow this in the house) all he wants.
3. throw food. if its bad i say we have a food fight.
4. drawing on EVERYTHING walls, floors, NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS. i encourage his imagination.
5. paint on us and the walls. see #4
6. junkfood everyday all day. my brother is a picky eater so if he eats anything im so happy. (i give him a multivitamin to make up for all that he lost).
7. eat with his hands. its SUPER SUPER MESSY but he loves it.
8. were mis matched clothes in public.
if that means him wearing bright green pants a pink shirt sandels and a hat to church well gess what hes wearing it.
9. haveing "messy bath's" we get them off of Pinterest sencery baths for kids.
10. sleep with me. (hes got his own room) but if he wants to sleep with me he can.
11. jump on furniture and beds. (he has a trampoline and mini trampoline in his room) its just he likes to jump on furniture 😂.
12. play in mud. ANYWHERE. sure i was late taking him to his ABA but we had a blast getting soaked. btw. he went in to his ABA dripping mud the other kids and adults looked at us like we were crazy. (ok only some did) a couple of his teachers said "will its good he's having fun.😂😂😂😂😂.
13. pee in the shower. (if i can get him to pee i will (he once peed on the floor while i was cleaning up after arts and crafts i said (in my happyist voice i could) i said "buddy wow you made a big peepee lets get you cleaned up"
14. baby talk . if he understands it better. I'll do it.
and 15. love him unconditional. he's thought me so much. ❤️
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@sistersmainpiece smack me and call it the hills have eyes
Do u think any of this is honestly helping him! I have 2 autistic brothers and not giving him any structure is not helping at all! Dont mean to be rude.
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I think she has the same shit 🤣 they should go live in the mental home together the shit I read on here like wtf I think he needs to be in a home and her far away from that poor kid smh 😩🤦🏽♀️
Omg y'all it's autism SISTER NOW SMH
WHAT in the actual fuck did I just read. This is TOO fuckin much. Like... HOW sad and bored of a person are you to go through all this crap just bs'n? WHY, what's the end game???
My bro pooped in the toilet YYYYYYEEEESSSSSSSSS the amount of kisses and cookies he is getting are unreal. 🙂 but he deserves them he is such a sweet dude and very loving.
For all of of you craving about a many use this app fine. In going to let my sister take over. We stay at her house sometime. (Infact i think im moving in with her anyway (long story) but it will take some time. So don't ban me because im giving this acc. To my sister geeze.
Bruh, Ima need you to just delete your account. Still no exceptions.
I bet there’s at least 2 sisters in this equation somewhere. 💵
Yeah i know listen im going to bath my bro because he keeps saying bath time i already gave him like 4 baths. 🙂 oh well. I love him so so much. ♥🎗🙂 and then im going to crash. Peace.
That’s a lot going on in your life bro.
I can't say.
Bruhhhh imma need u to go seek help u are having a episode and I'm being serious as hell
No im not.
But thank you for thanking of me.
I really can't say but im one of the good guys.
@sistersmainpiece about a month ago.
@autismbrother yes u need to go seek immediate help!!!
@pottmouthed_stirredup im fine.
@autismbrother not to be mean but they let u be his caregiver and u have that serious health disorder?
Well i say that because sometimes we get her on her good days. I'm sorry i shud of clarified. And im 27 yrs old.
@sistersmainpiece yes and no i work with a laptop in the home but we travel a lot.
@sistersmainpiece sorry i have dyslexia too.Lol im not going to have a aberration when i find the one.
Well....our mom is not well so im the only one who can care for him. She's in a home.
How old are you? In your post you said your mom and you... so now it’s just you ?
I’m just curious as to why your mom doesn’t make a mom life account and chat with us and get advice?
@autismbrother not trying to be mean.
Do u think any of this is honestly helping him! I have 2 autistic brothers and not giving him any structure is not helping at all! Dont mean to be rude.
@pottmouthed_stirredup both.
@sistersmainpiece no but i need some i have anti depressants because i can't take my bro having all of this. I know it sounds mean as hell but i can't.
@autismbrother try to add more structure and it would be so much. Autism is not a excuse to do whatever he wants
Well i say that because sometimes we get her on her good days. I'm sorry i shud of clarified. And im 27 yrs old.