Me and my youngest dad, he hasn’t seen her or did anything for her since she’s been born. It’s been 15 months am I’m wrong for keeping him on cs. I don’t have a problem taking him off. I just have a problem with him not being in her live. Not to mention he said he could have one of his friends kill us both then said he wouldn’t do it. like I’m torn cause I’m not close to either of my parents. I really didn’t want my girls to grow up feeling like it’s a part of them missing.
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I swear, n wen I was pregnant we agreed on cs. He went to all the cs appointments n was so cool about it then stop after they actually started taken from his checks. Never tried to see her. I know I need to be careful. Cause my baby girl deserves better. I’m just not the type that can have an abortion n get up as if nothing happen. N not all people can handle that.
I wouldn’t deal with him just by the way he text... like wtf. I would never talk to his ass lol
On another note...holy fluck he sounds illiterate af.
Nah, keep his ass on child support. That baby is better off without him in her life anyways. Threaten to have your own daughter killed? Gtfoh.
Thanks y’all, it’s just be so hard. Knowing she won’t have him but I pray I get a man who can treat her like his own
Trust me give it time and y'all will be blessed with a king for your empire 😊💯🙌
With a dad like that she don’t need him. He is literally telling you he ain’t shit, he doesn’t want to be in her life and he is gonna continue to be a dead beat. One day a man will come into your life and cherish her and love her the way a father is supposed to. And guess what, even if you were single forever you’re going to love her so much and give her everything she needs.
If a man wants to be in his child’s life, he is going to be there physically and want to provide financially. DO NOT take him off child support. He is going to be who he is even when you take him off. Don’t let that sorry ass man make you feel wrong.
He's a pos and I feel sorry for you and your child but it's for the better but he do needa pay that child support can't believe he tried having his friend kill y'all that's fucked up 😔😔
Wait he threatened to have his friend kill you and your child? I'm confused.
Yes. A few months ago. I had him arrested for phone harassment
@rickyrayates93 I would get a restraining order against him because him saying he'd get his friend to kill y'all is not something you should take lightly. I would of cut him out of your child's life completely after that because it's better for your child to be safe because to me that would be a red flag that he could possibly hurt your child.
Child support needs to stay in tact, period! This man only cares about where his money going, which is why he’s bitching. Don’t cater to him on that because at the end of the day he still has that financial obligation so that shouldn’t be taken from him.
Before he became my husband, we agreed if we got pregnant out of wedlock to go draw up and file our own child support agreement and I would take him off once we got married. Even if we lived together I’d still get the money and he was okay with that. Nothing against each other, we just wanted to handle business and keep that part of our relationship on the up and up. I wish more men thought like that so there would be less drama.