Husband just got offered more pay if he will work overnights. We would leave when I get off work and not be home until 3am. And he would only work week days and I work weekends and have 2 week days off. So we would NEVER see eachother and I dont like that. I also have horrible anxiety at night and the few times he has been away overnight, I haven't slept. I do not like this idea at all, but he really does...the extra pay anf only having to work 4 days (12 hours.) I know it would be better for him and us (financially) but when he told me I started crying and I need to give him an answer this evening abouy how i feel and I just dont know. I feel selfish but also know if he does this, im gonna havr such a hard time.