My siblings are the most selfish fucking people ever.
My dad is not the best person for my mom. Hes abusive to her emotionally and physically at times. Shes stuck with him. She has nowhere else to go. I'm trying to get her to move in with us out here in AZ and she has no ride. My husband will be gone for business out of state and I dont trust our old 4runner to CA and back. Esp by myself and 2 kids. My sister was all up for helping her by driving her out until she realized she wont have a baby sitter anymore while at work. She can ask her husbands family to do it but she refuses to because shes too shy. Instead she makes my mom do it while going through menopause AND my dad yelling at her and fighting with her EVERY SINGLE TIME she baby sits. My younger brother who lives with my mom and dad with his gf and 2 kids are telling her to stay because they don't want to deal with my dad when shes gone. My older brother is the only one is fine with her moving. My mom deserves this! She grew up treated like shit by her siblings and mom and now her kids and her husband just use her and toss her aside when shes not needed. I dont want her to live with me to be my baby sitter or bend to my will like they seem to think. I want her to come out here so I can help her get on a insurance plan. So she can find a job if that's what she wants. So she can go on dates with men who are better for her. I want her to live how she should be able to and better herself and feel better about herself. So she can get her own place out here and live a life of her own that isnt all about what her kids need next. WE ARE ALL ADULTS NOW. We can be independent and should be!! 😡😡😡