so i took my baby to see her dad like last week my family doesn’t know we went but i took a pic of my baby and her dad when we where eating and i sent it to him he posted it public on his facebook and my mom always sees his page she’s going to eventually see it and know i lied what should i tell her once she finds out ???? i already asked him to please delete it and he said he’s not that he doesn’t care who sees it
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Would she be mad because she doesn’t like him? Or because she thinks you’ll get back together?
both many other reasons to like me and him had a bad relationship he left us for another girl my mom just hates when i talk about her seeing him i can’t imagine when she finds out she saw him already...
Crappy situation. She’s your daughter at the end of the day. You know what’s best.
I would definitely talk to your mom before she finds out. Sit her down and explain to her that you don’t want to fight and that you respect her enough to tell her.
Good luck with what happens. 💓
@xosxo, I see. Well honesty is the best policy. Unless he’s a hazard to your daughter they don’t really have a say
Well that’s his daughter too so he can see her and post pictures on his Facebook of him and his child. Your mom needs to stay in her place as a grandmother. Why did you lie to her? Is it more to the story ?
ETA: I read your other posts. I see y’all broke up and he moved on and tried to get back with you. Relationships don’t always work but as long as he isn’t being abusive to y’alls child or you and you don’t feel in danger around him I’m not getting the issue your mom would have.
i lied because i know how they get not just my mom my dad aswell. her dad is in drugs doesn’t have a home or job his life is upside down but at the end of the day it’s her dad. so what can i tell my mom if she ever sees the pic ??
@xosxo, be honest. My daughter deserves to know her dad and have a relationship with him. I understand your concern but as her mother I am doing what I feel is in her best interest and I ask that you respect that.
@xosxo, also let her know that you wouldn’t leave her alone with him until he has his life together, the visit is supervised and you wouldn’t ever do anything to put your child in harms way.
I would just tell your Mom/family. Tearing the band-aid off and telling the truth is better than your Mom finding out second hand. Is it because he doesn't help support your daughter or you too went through a horrible break-up? Your parents have up realize you're a parent and although you'll make mistakes, as they did, they're how you grow as an adult. It's tough because you live with them, but hiding things are worse than telling them.