Good morning ladies☺ today's question is if your significant other wanted you to get your tubes tied just because he didn't want no more kids but you really don't want to get your tubes tied because you don't want any more kids right now but maybe down the line you might want one more would you still do it???
I mean if he doesn’t want anymore kids period then how u gunna get pregnant later if u want another one ?
Agree with you, i wouldn’t get my tubes tide but i will
Make sure i wouldn’t get pregnant cause hes aloud to not want anymore !!
Well i personally don't think anyone should make such a drastic and permanent decision concerning their body based on what someone else wants
No. Like someone else said if he doesn't want anymore kids than he can get a vasectomy. Of course that means if you absolutely want kids later on you'll have to have them with some else...
Uh no... he can get a vasectomy and man up. I already pushed a baby out of my vagina, I’m not going through an intense surgery because he can’t deal with not even a days worth of pain. Plus a vasectomy is reversible, getting your tubes tied is not!
While technically “reversible”, it can be very difficult to get pregnant after a vasectomy. I had a friend who spent a lot of money for her husband’s vasectomy to be reversed, and they were unable to get pregnant, so then they paid for IUI and still couldn’t get pregnant. A whole lot of money and heartache. No one should have their tubes tied if there are still doubts by either party. Go with longer-term birth control.
You and Pam are together, though? No pregnancy scares because of obvious reasons. I’m so confused 😂😂😂😂
Lol it's just a question. Just because we ask it, doesn't mean it's personal. She actually got this from teen mom
Well what I would do is we will have to sit down and have a long talk and come up with something that works out for the both of us🤔
@pamelawife134 Also, it says "he" and vasectomy soo i don't see where the confusion comes in
Because you guys use the ex for the kids, right? I was thinking he was saying he wanted one of you to have your tubes tied. That’s why I was confused since you aren’t romantically involved with him except when a pregnancy is wanted.
Well yes we use his sperm. That's it. So our sperm donor wouldn't have any say on us choosing to expand our family or not and he certainly would be waaayyy out of line expecting either of us to tie our tubes.
No because I'm not doing anything to my body unless I want to do it. Mine are tied but we both don't want anymore and I'm the one that decided to do it. I'm not going to do something I don't want to do though.
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He can get a vasectomy.
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You and Pam are together, though? No pregnancy scares because of obvious reasons. I’m so confused 😂😂😂😂
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Now I'm confused lmao
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Lol it's just a question. Just because we ask it, doesn't mean it's personal. She actually got this from teen mom